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Lisa and her husband have been married for 16 years and non-monogamous for 4. They live in a swing state and are active in their local community organizing events. Lisa's passions include reading, writing, crochet, aquariums and building an amazing local and online swing community.

There’s always room for more… Here is another set of games to get your group mingling and flirting. These are games we’ve used for our meet and greet. We meet once a month in a public club where there are a few other patrons. We have between 60 and 120 people in attendance, couples and singles. Everyone is part of our online group. We started playing an ice breaker game because members had commented they were nervous about approaching new people. Quite a few people would come to meet and greet and just sit by themselves at a table. The…

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Girls’ Nights Out are a relaxed, low-key way for women in the swing lifestyle to get to know each other and have fun. I’ve run two girls’ nights for my local group and I’m excited to share my experiences with you in this article. My group currently meets once a month for a Meet and Greet at a vanilla club. The group is comprised of couples and single over age 30. If you are interested in learning more about how I organize the meet and greets you can read this article, How to Run a Fantastic Swinger Meet and Greet…

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These are games we’ve used for our meet and greet. We meet once a month in a public club where there are a few other patrons. We have between 60 and 120 people in attendance, couples and singles. Everyone is part of our online group. We started playing an ice breaker game because members had commented they were nervous about approaching new people. Quite a few people would come to meet and greet and just sit by themselves at a table. The games are a vehicle to get people up and mingling. They’ve been very well- received. Discretion is a…

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Are you tired of the same old cliché “Dinner and Drinks” or “Meet at the Club” swing dates? Conversation and spending time together are essential if you like to get to know your partners before playing. Rather than meeting at a coffee shop, bar or club, try activities that foster active flirting and connection. Swing dates can be relaxing, exciting or even a bit competitive. Think about the hobbies or events you enjoy and how they might fit into your swing lifestyle. As an added bonus, the ideas listed below don’t require eating food or drinking alcohol, making it easy…

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My husband and I had been married for 11 years and together since high school. We’d been through the typical ups and downs of life and had settled into a happy routine. We liked to spend time in the evening talking and relaxing naked in our hot tub after the kids were in bed. One evening my husband said, “Hey, I was looking for porn online when I came across a swinging website. Have you ever heard of swinging?” I replied, “Swinging? Like Austin Powers? That’s not real. Real people don’t do that.” He told me about the online swinger…

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Threesomes offer a unique, sexy opportunity. Hopefully you’ve read the other articles in this series (Being a Sexual Special Guest Star Part 1, Part 2, Part 3) and have found a couple who is a good match for you. This article will give you some serious, sexy and fun ideas to make things go smoothly when you hit the sheets. Rules and Boundaries Before the play starts it is very important that everyone understands each others boundaries and desires. Nothing does more to ruin a sexual moment than creating a situation that is uncomfortable for one or more of the…

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It’s time to meet couples in real life! Whether you’ve decided to meet a couple one on one or venture out to a swing event, here are some guidelines to help you along. Safety As a single it’s important to consider your safety foremost. While most people we’ve met in the lifestyle are genuine and caring; we have met individuals who are dangerous. You don’t need to be paranoid, but please take a few easy steps to make your encounters safer. I strongly suggest that whenever you meet strangers for the first time it be at a public place. Swing…

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You’ve made the choice to check out the swinging lifestyle as a single! It may seem exciting, but mysterious and daunting at the same time. Here are basic steps to get started meeting couples online and in person. Online websites for swingers serve two important purposes. First, they allow you to introduce yourself to your local swing community. Secondly, they will provide you information about clubs and events in your area and local personalities. Creating an online profile is a good first step toward meeting couples. Step 1: Find a Website There are dozens of swinger websites. Many are regional…

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I often hear that couples have trouble finding “real” swingers. They’ve tried online personal ads and gotten no email and few responses. They exchanged pictures and maybe chatted a bit, but nothing came of it. They might set a date to meet for drinks and then get canceled on a the last minute. They tried going to a local swing club, but everyone seemed to already know each other. I hear this time and time again from new and experienced swingers. We noticed the same things until we started participating in, and eventually hosting, Meet and Greets. Meet and Greets…

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I often talk to single men and women who are interested in swinging, but aren’t sure what it’s all about or how to get involved. In this series I’ll give you tips on getting started and building swing relationships with couples. From making the decision to swing to bedroom fun, following these tips should help you feel more confident and increase your chances of having fulfilling swing experiences. If you are considering swinging as a single there are a few questions you should ask yourself. These are questions couples interested in you may ask, and things you should know about…

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