When Life Gets Small
Impermanence is something we all have to learn to deal with. Everything in our lives…
Browsing: Blogs
A goodbye to a good boy. Meditations on grief.
I have this weird expectation of grief that I first realized way back in junior…
Reclaiming My Inner Slut
It’s been a long time since I’ve written a blog post that wasn’t a review.…
Be a Beacon
I’ve been thinking a lot about love and hope and joy lately. Which is interesting…
Rules, Boundaries, Making This Up As We Go
At heart, I’d like to be a relationship anarchist but I’ve gone along with my…
The Art of Receiving a Sexy Photo
There’s no wrong way to receive a sexy photo, right? Unfortunately, that is incorrect. There’s…
The Swingers Next Door
For newbies and many experienced people, the greatest fear of swinging is being found out…
The Romantic Woes of a Reasonable Person
I am eminently reasonable. In theory, it’s a great quality to have. I’m able to…
It’s Not a Competition. Except That It Sort Of Is.
“Love is infinite. Time is not.” It’s one of the oft-repeated truisms of polyamory and…
I Love Friend Sex!
My husband, Flick, and I recently celebrated three years since our gateway threesome with the…