Rules, Boundaries, Making This Up As We Go
At heart, I’d like to be a relationship anarchist but I’ve gone along with my…
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The Art of Receiving a Sexy Photo
There’s no wrong way to receive a sexy photo, right? Unfortunately, that is incorrect. There’s…
The Swingers Next Door
For newbies and many experienced people, the greatest fear of swinging is being found out…
The Romantic Woes of a Reasonable Person
I am eminently reasonable. In theory, it’s a great quality to have. I’m able to…
It’s Not a Competition. Except That It Sort Of Is.
“Love is infinite. Time is not.” It’s one of the oft-repeated truisms of polyamory and…
I Love Friend Sex!
My husband, Flick, and I recently celebrated three years since our gateway threesome with the…
Swingset Year 6: In the Middle
I can’t believe it’s been a year since I last wrote. It was quite a…
On Consent
I’ve written before about being in an open relationship when you’re accidentally monogamous. That was…
My Swingset Takes Over Desire 2017 Moments
This year at Swingset Takes Over Desire wasn’t the endless hedonistic revel it has been…
The More The Merrier (Until It’s Not)
Non-monogamy is an inherently challenging relationship style, and not just because of the things many…