When Life Gets Small
Impermanence is something we all have to learn to deal with. Everything in our lives…
Browsing: On The Wetcoast
Reclaiming My Inner Slut
It’s been a long time since I’ve written a blog post that wasn’t a review.…
The Art of Receiving a Sexy Photo
There’s no wrong way to receive a sexy photo, right? Unfortunately, that is incorrect. There’s…
The Romantic Woes of a Reasonable Person
I am eminently reasonable. In theory, it’s a great quality to have. I’m able to…
It’s Not a Competition. Except That It Sort Of Is.
“Love is infinite. Time is not.” It’s one of the oft-repeated truisms of polyamory and…
I Love Friend Sex!
My husband, Flick, and I recently celebrated three years since our gateway threesome with the…
My Swingset Takes Over Desire 2017 Moments
This year at Swingset Takes Over Desire wasn’t the endless hedonistic revel it has been…
The More The Merrier (Until It’s Not)
Non-monogamy is an inherently challenging relationship style, and not just because of the things many…
But We Scheduled This Months Ago: When Pre-Planning Meets Reality
We all have the ideal visual in our heads of what it’s going to be…
The Lonely Pervert
Listening to a podcast recently, an author was discussing his book on loneliness in gay…