Author: Mrs Doubleplay

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Mrs. Doubleplay is 40-something mom living in the middle of America with kids, a career, and pretty house in the suburbs. She’s active in her local church, coaches the kids’ soccer games, and happens to have a secret life as a swinger. Married to her high school sweetheart, Mr. Doubleplay, the couple dipped their toes in the lifestyle for a couple of years but then dropped off the radar to have kids. They rejoined the lifestyle in 2005 and haven’t looked back. They have been soft swap from the start but are working their way toward greater forms of adventure as we meet hot couples on lifestyle vacations, swinger clubs, and online websites.

We had some lifestyle friends over the other night. They asked us a question that went something like this, “We have a question for you, because we have only one couple who does. Do you like anal sex? We just don’t get it.” My husband’s response, “Well, now you know two couples.” I don’t think I gave them a good answer because I was surprised by the question. I figure your average vanilla couple may not be adventurous enough to explore anal sex, but I figured most lifestyle couples had. For us, it has become a part of our sexual…

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Read Part 1 here and Part 2 here. I am a frustrated swinger. Plus my ego is bruised. I feel like I broke up with a couple and we hadn’t even gotten it on. Are they going to call us back? Is it over or on for next week? I just don’t know. We have continued to court our local swingers. Flirty texts have flown back and forth. I have sent naughty photos as a birthday presents. The texts were hot. But no action. We had them over for dinner last week. She warned us about her period, so no…

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Mr. D. and I have only one main rule left in our lifestyle book—we play as a team. That rule seems to be ending. Or at least sometimes. We are trying to figure out what this means. And we got a taste of the fun side of dropping this rule during the last visit to our local club. The night before our visit to the club, I was chatting on Facebook with a Lifestyle friend. She piqued my curiosity about the glories of playing separately. We had played with her and her husband many times but some drama was lurking.…

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Mr. D and I recently boarded a jet plane to spend a weekend in one of our favorite cities. We love spending a weekend eating good food, listening to live music, and attending one of our favorite swinger’s club in the United States. We have developed a friendship with a lifestyle couple in this town. I look forward to the opportunity to see this couple and especially the guy. I have amazing chemistry with the guy. He is an airline pilot and I have a fantasy of him having a layover somewhere near my town. I am waiting for him…

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Mr. D. and I had a second experience with the same hot single guy recently. It had been about six months since seeing him before. The first time we had met him at a bar to check him out and see if he was the real deal and if he was hot. Then we used Priceline to find a hotel and we were on our way. This time, Mr. D. said, “Let’s just meet him at a hotel room.” I greeted him at the door in sexy lingerie. We had a drink and quickly got down to business. We don’t…

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While we are exploring the possibility of my husband getting it on with the local hottie in town (see previous blog), I felt some waves of jealousy. Yet I realized that my jealousy was not Mr. D. playing with the hot blonde. In fact, I am looking forward to being the videographer of that show. Mr. D. should certainly not pass up a once in a lifetime opportunity. Instead, I am jealous that I do not have enough play opportunities. As I have written about ad nauseum in previous blogs, Mr. Doubleplay probably has about 75% more intercourse than I…

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As discussed in our previous blog, Mr. Doubleplay and I discovered that one of the hottest couples in town is in the lifestyle. The couple has known about our habits for two years since we shared photos with them on the local website. I agreed to have coffee with the female hottie of this couple and we much anticipated this meeting. We could have talked for hours. But we had to whisper as we were in a busy café of a local supermarket. We traded stories, worries, jokes. Our meeting went well enough that we suggested that the guys have…

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Mr. Doubleplay and I received the following email recently: “Hello Mr. and Mrs. Doubleplay, This is Jane (not my real name). Believe it or not we have actually met and said hello a couple of times in our real life. We met about two years ago right around the first time you messaged us. I know you well enough to know that I like you and think we could be friends but not enough to know if we can trust you. Beyond that, we actually have a few mutual friends and cross paths from time to time. We have had…

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Anyone who is active with multiple sex partners should be getting tested regularly for STDs. We all know this. We preach it on blogs, podcasts, and websites. Yet it is getting harder and harder to get tested in this country—at least where I live. Planned Parenthood has been run out of town, even though the clinic in our town did not perform abortions. It was the one anonymous place where swingers could go to get tested for STDs easily. No other clinic type setting exists. Everyone goes to traditional gynecological practices for the most part. I had my annual gynecological…

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This past summer I was utterly amused at the obsession with the Fifty Shades of Grey book series. I especially enjoyed seeing women reading the book in places such as my swim club, at the airport, and other public spaces. If you haven’t read the books, they are incredibly graphic depictions of a dom/sub relationship. While the S & M community takes issue with some of the issues portrayed in the series, I was struck with how graphic the books are. It’s essentially a pornographic pageturner. So when the ladies at the swim club last summer would say, “Oh! Are…

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