Author Ethical Slut

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I'm a poly, kinky, bisexual, Ethical Slut that rides the swinger line. I am a huge advocate for being who you are openly with no apologies. I am just trying to help the world understand like minded people like myself one word at a time. Check out my blog at http://polyforyou.com/ Or follow me on Twitter @polyforyou

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Polyamory – At The Core of One’s Being…

Is polyamory like sexual orientation, a deep trait felt to be at the core of one’s being? Would a polyamorous person feel as incomplete without multiple partners as a lesbian or gay person might feel without one?

Articles Second - Refusing Standard Polyamory Relationship Structure
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Second – Refusing Standard Polyamory Relationship Structure

There have been a couple of people recently who have said the phrase, “I don’t want to be second”. One was to me and one was to my partner. This state of mind always disturbs me because my partner and I don’t see relationships structured that way in this lifestyle. We don’t believe in or like the labels “Primary” or “Secondary” partners. There are always priorities and responsibilities to each relationship, but if a relationship goes down such a path, my love for my partners can and will be equal. To us it’s only fair to each other and to the people involved.

Articles Commitment - Love & Polyamory
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Commitment

When someone is asking questions about my lifestyle, the one I get most often seems…

Articles Settling - Striving For Connections in Non-Monogamy
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Settling – Striving For Connections in Non-Monogamy

There are times in the Lifestyle when we are certain of things. Our choices and decisions are solid and we know what we need and want in any given moment. But, we also run into moments where we are uncertain. Times when we don’t know what to do and we depend on our partners to help us figure things out. But there are some things we can only count on ourselves for. One of them is knowing what we want and need in our relationships and if we are settling in the process.

Articles Do Not Disturb - Adults at Play
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Children in the Mix – Telling The Truth About Swinging & Non-Monogamy

In a lot of cases with the non-monogamy lifestyle there are a lot of parents that keep that lifestyle away from their kids to the extent that they never let their kids know who they truly are and who they truly love. There are others that keep the lifestyle respectfully away from their children, but don’t hide who they are from them.