Author: Cooper S. Beckett

About Cooper Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He is currently working on two instructional non-fiction books, one about beginning non-monogamy, and another about pegging.

We here at The Swingset are always happy to help with any questions or concerns you have, please don’t hesitate to ask! Q: I am very interested in delving into a more open / alternative lifestyle with my partner. I’ve been listening to your podcast and the lifestyle resonates with me and in theory I can see myself going there with him (my partner) in the future. Right now we are looking for a woman for a threesome and would want to start out soft swap. Here’s my question…how do you deal with the jealousy issue as a newcomer? Like…

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We here at The Swingset are always happy to help with any questions or concerns you have, please don’t hesitate to ask! Q. We have gone to a swingers club many times and when things heat up and it’s time to get naked, my husband Tom will not take off his shirt. He’s overweight, but that’s not the problem. The problem is he has psoriasis and has patches of it on his belly and is embarrassed by it. He thinks other people at the club would be turned off by it and will not want to play with him or…

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Disclaimer: What follows is SPECULATION and should in no way be regarded as fact…or truth, even.  Wild theories, these. And certainly not malicious. I had an interesting thought recently. And I’m not sure really what brought it on, but it was one of those SNAP – SHARP FOCUS moments you get occasionally. Well, I get anyway. An, Aha! It all makes sense! sort of thing. What, you ask, the hell are you talking about, Cooper? Well, the thought was that it was possible that the Clintons (Bill and Hillary) have an open marriage. Let that sink in a moment. You…

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Our narrator brings you in and fills you up in a tryst by the car outside work involving oral, and anal, cunnilingus and rimming, all mingled with the threat of getting caught in this new piece of erotica

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It’s been a while since I’ve had something to review over here at Swingset Labs, and when I come back, surprise surprise, it’s some anal beads, Ophoria’s Rapture #6. When I took them out of the box, I noticed a few things right off.  First, they’re extremely soft silicone, the kind that’s fun to touch, sort of matte finish. Smooth but textured.  Second, the beads themselves are rather thin and oval, so this is a perfect product for beginners. It’s about ten inches long, with seven or so of those inches insert-able. And ours was bright purple. Immediately I liked…

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I received a lovely email from Mr. M Sugarshack Jr this weekend with some wonderful compliments about the show and website, and pointing out something that was unexplained in a certain Infomercial for a certain OTHER Magic Bullet product.  Take a look at even just the beginning of the infomercial below. So…they’re clearly staying in this couple’s house. They clearly had a wild night the night before.  They’re not all on vacation.  I think we, the enlightened, can all draw our OWN conclusions here!  Mr. M Sugarshack Jr’s thoughts are below: I wanted to share a story that you and…

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After three episodes of our Guys Have Penises, Girls Have Vaginas podcast, I noticed for the first time a very disturbing thing.  My shows were called Guys Have P***ses, Girls Have V***nas. What the fuck is a P***s? I completely understand censoring for general audiences, especially in an online store where people could be about who can’t see certain words.  Well, even if I don’t completely understand it, I can tolerate it, in the same way I tolerate that I shouldn’t say titty fuck in front of a 6 year old girl in the line at the grocery store. (That…

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