Author: Cooper S. Beckett
Marilyn and I spoke briefly with Wendy Strgar of “Ask The Loveologist” on Care2.com about our swinging lifestyle and our desires for this site. We want it to be a beacon in the darkness to those who feel that their lifestyle desires are dirty and wrong. Thanks Wendy for mentioning us in your article (page two) and we agree with most everything you said in the article.
Today Marilyn and I decided to take a big step in our lifestyle. We have just booked a trip to Desire for next February. Why is this a big step? Well, to date our swinging interactions have mainly been with people we’ve met a few times and then played with, or people we know through others and are therefore sort of “vouched for.” (which is really a post all in itself…) Though we fully intend to give on/off site parties and clubs a chance, we just haven’t gotten around to it, which is really because we’ve never been that comfortable meeting people. So to now book a trip to a clothing optional and VERY swinger friendly resort….well, it’s a bold move for us, and one I’m proud of.
We’re lucky enough to have a local bar that, every Wednesday, is happy to host a small group of swingers. This bar is fully aware of who we are, and judging by the amount of traffic that the OTHER half of the bar gets on Wednesday nights, they were absolutely thrilled to have us there. I’m told we have even been offered porn on the small & curtained off VIP area.
I really did expect to ditch it sooner. Mainly because I have little sense of follow through, but also because I didn’t expect it to be nearly as good as it was.
Just over half way through my 30 day experiment to end masturbation death grip syndrome by only using The Fleshlight for my solo playtime. My first few days with the toy proved to be a harbinger of things to come. This is, indeed, the finest crafted male masturbatory toy I have ever encountered, though I’m not really a connoisseur. (My hand has done just fine all by its lonesome for quite some time…until it decided to formulate a plot to ruin my…let’s just say interpersonal sexual encounters) What is most impresses me about it, though, is the consistency. I have not…
First Impressions. Well it’s a lot larger than both Marilyn and I expected, that’s for sure. And surprisingly heavy once the repetitive motion kicks in. (You know the one) It also has that smell. That smell that every other fake body part sex shops have been selling us have. So far these have been my only complaints. Considering it’s ostensibly a “pocket pussy” and I only have those two complaints, (Large isn’t, in fact, a complaint [according to my wife]) This toy is stacking up pretty well. The Experiment Begins. I have now used the Fleshlight two and a half…