When I set out to write this, the first official post of this blog, I…
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Recently I tweeted employing the term PolyFidele, indicating a state of polyfidelity seasoned with a…
Recently two Long Beach, CA girls decided they needed to meet after school to fight.…
It’s been a year since we decided to open our marriage. We started out thinking…
Which came first? The rotten egg or the spiteful, angry hen who laid it? Or,…
The topic of slut shaming has been on my mind recently, and I’ve been thinking…
Is polyamory like sexual orientation, a deep trait felt to be at the core of one’s being? Would a polyamorous person feel as incomplete without multiple partners as a lesbian or gay person might feel without one?
Every act of creation is first an act of destruction. – Pablo Picasso I love…
When introducing a new romantic interest to our friends and loved ones, we all want this person to be well received and well liked. We want our family and friends to find them attractive, interesting, funny, and basically dig them like we do. We polyamorists are much the same, but we have a much more critical judge – our primary partner.
It occurred to me today – well, many times, but I only dwelled enough on the subject to write about it today – that the wedding ring, which once was the universal sign for “don’t even try to flirt with me” has lost that aspect of its meaning in my life. How many people do we know who are happily married and also romantically available? I am on that list.