Author: The RopeMaster

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Kinky, laid back, ethically non-monogamous and living life to the fullest.

One of the men’s washrooms at Desire Riviera Maya is located opposite the resort’s rooftop hot tub. There is a small window right above the only urinal in that washroom. During multiple visits to the resort, the high vantage point of that window gave me a westward view inland while standing there. The view would never be described as particularly striking; mostly the tops of mangroves for miles and some distant electrical towers. At night, lights twinkle into existence following a hidden highway and some building further west. Strange as it may sound, that unremarkable view became very special to…

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In part 1 and part 2 of this article we explored the concept of destination swinging, the motivations for doing so and some associated benefits and disadvantages to that approach. In this final installment I’ll explore some ideas on where one can go to get away and meet other like-minded people. So, where does one go if they want to swing discretely while traveling? The first option is an exotic resort that caters to the lifestyle. The best known options would be Hedonism in Jamaica and the Desire line of resorts in Mexico. There are pros and cons to each,…

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In part 1 of this article we explored the concept of destination swinging and how the quest for anonymity and escapism could be motivators to seeking sexy connections exclusively outside of our normal circles. No matter how you swing, there are pros and cons to how you do it and travelling to swing is no exception and that is the topic of this article. First, the disadvantages. Let’s face it, exploring non-monogamy only during travel means facing a limited number of opportunities for play. Finding that chemistry between people is not trivial, so further limiting when that can happen may…

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The lifestyle presents countless ways to approach swinging. There’s no right way to swing, but like any sub-culture, the lifestyle does have its share of norms. This article discusses one of the less common approaches to swinging… Exclusively traveling to swing. In contrast to those who attend a local club, or use a dating website to meet like minded people close to home, some couples find swinging away from home to be the right formula for them. Call it what you may, sexcations or destination swinging, this is exactly how my Lovely and I have been swinging since opening up…

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