Author: Life on the Swingset

Hazy insanity, that is all. “It’s like Goldschlager, you want to see the chunks.” “When I’m rubbing lube on your cock, I want to feel the chunks.” let me google that for you: pig penis “Is Ginger now the other white meat?” – J.V. Tom Ridge’s Color Coding System for Swingset Podcasts “I’ve got a code brown.” Cooper’s Leetspeak needs some help, thought “FTW” meant “fuck the world” #oldmancooper “Obviously we are all down with OPP.” “Other people’s pork?” (Ginger wtf) “I asked Gillian Anderson out… on twitter.” – Ginger “We did white privilege roleplay.” – Miko You can find…

Humans have been having sex since the beginning of time. And from cave drawings to the Kama Sutra to The Joy of Sex, we have been inventing ways to communicate about the sex we are having. Then Al Gore invented the Internet and everything changed. Tonight we are excited to finally welcome esteemed sexologist, Dr Richard Wagner, also known as Dr. Dick, onto the Swingset to reflect on how technology and access to sexual information has shaped our ability to embody our most authentic sexual selves. Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your…

Girl on girl…the mythology and visual ecstasy live large from Spring Break to Bourbon Street. Girl on girl sex is worthy of being epic. And certainly deserves more respect than main stream culture affords. Girl sex can perhaps be a little less obvious, though no less delicious. We are excited to welcome Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 to episode 201 of Life on the Swingset. Scott Adams had something to say about monogamy this week. Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your stories, your orgasms, your everything! Join us on our…

In two hundred episodes of Life on the Swingset, the podcast, we’ve seen ethical non-monogamy go from something whispered about into something that’s getting cover articles in major publications. The entire idea of the monogamish; alternate relationships, sexual arrangements, and partnering is having a moment. Tonight, we’re thrilled to have, as our guest, Dan Savage who, whether he likes it or not, is a sort of a Podfather to our little podcast, as the vicarious thrills we got from listening to people with very sexy lives helped shape at least my interest in exploring lifestyles. Give us a call and…

All of us living life on the Swingset are well-versed in the passion, communication, and negotiation being consensually non-monogamous requires. Yet it’s rare to see our kinds of relationships portrayed in mainstream films. One such film about to be released is Marriage 2.0 written and produced by Magnus Sullivan. In Magnus’s movie, we are (quote) “invited to celebrate a modern redefinition of the committed relationship…where unfettered physical and emotional intimacy can fuel our passion while strengthening the bond with those we love.” Tonight we have Magnus Sullivan join us on the Swingset to talk relationships and the role movies can…

We’ve talked at length about the sad fact that many young people in america get the entirety of their sex ed from watching porn. When porn comes that’s actually designed to educate, however, it can be revelatory. We’re rejoined by old friend (and new Swingset.FM contributor) Sophie Delancey from The Art of Blowjob and the brand new Art of Cunnilingus to talk about art, educational porn, and oral sex! Rachel Kramer Bussel wrote an article Salon.com published recently on cunnilingus. Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your stories, your orgasms, your everything! Buy Cooper’s…

BUY “BAN THIS SICK FILTH!” NOW Newly released on RealQueerPorn, “Ban This Sick Filth!” is a political and sexual revolution within a compilation of films and interviews on porn censorship and its impact in the UK and USA. This collaboration between American performers/producers Kitty Stryker and Courtney Trouble from TROUBLEfilms also features hardcore content and interviews from British performer/producer Pandora Blake from Dreams of Spanking. Originally planned to highlight censored acts in the UK, this film was denied DVD distribution in the US because of some of the consensual acts depicted. Porn, often decided to be without “serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value”,…

Those of us who write about sex and speak about sex and sing about sex have stepped into a unique realm in our society. Where sex was always a hush hush don’t talk about it subject, we’ve decided to podcast, and write, and write songs, and express our sexuality into the world for many different reasons. Rachel Lark, who wrote those awesome naughty Christmas songs a few episodes ago, has joined us to talk about sexual expression, play a few songs, and have a good time. Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your…

Cooper, Dylan, and Miko return to Milwaukee, Wisconsin’s wonderful Tool Shed to reprise Swingset’s discussion on play parties. They’re whispered about, opinions are drawn, expectations are high for both attendees and non. The sex party, the play party, the swinger party, call it what you will, to anyone who’s never been to one they conjure up visions of hedonistic abandon, or deeply creepy masked affairs. With so many people looking to explore their sexuality and needing a safe place to do so, play parties have value far beyond a whole bunch of naked people in a room. They can educate…

In our Swinging for Beginners Series thus far, we’ve taken you through deciding you’re open, talking to your partner, setting up your profile, and going on a first date. We think you’re ready for the meat of the course now: Threesomes! We discuss the ever-present acronyms fmf, mfm, mmf, different configurations and play styles, thinking about the new person as a sex toy, an other, or as an honored guest, playing as the single and of course… negotiating threesomes, communication, when threesomes go bad and when threesomes go great! Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we…