Author: Life on the Swingset

Hey fellow men… Dylan here. I want to take a moment to express a little sympathy. It can be incredibly hard out there to be a man. We’re living in an age inspired by the speed of the internet. Our goalposts of acceptability and common respectability on social issues and on how we relate to others in the world change what seems like weekly at times. Our perception of our gender as a responsibility hasn’t kept up with the evolution of gender as identity and of sexuality as more fluid than we were ever told was possible. We are being…

As a well known hypochondriac and germophobe who’d just as soon wrap his entire body in the Titan Full Body Condoms from The Naked Gun if only they sold them at The Lucky Bloke, It’s no surprise that Cooper thinks a lot about eroticizing safer sex. Thinking about it, talking about it, trying really hard to do it, it’s all there. On Swingset’s 2015 desire trip, Cooper sat next to The Doctor, no, not THAT Doctor, though he did feel an urge to let this sexy man take him on adventures. They knew too much about STIs and often scared…

Ginger sits down with Cooper for a one-on-one discussion of his new novel about swinging A Life Less Monogamous, recorded just days before the book launch. After they chat for a while, Cooper shares the first two chapters of the novel’s upcoming audiobook version narrated by himself and Kat Stark. You can buy the book now RIGHT HERE at ALifeLessMonogamous.com – use promo code SWINGSET at checkout to save 10%! The Novel’s Synopsis: We all come to a point in our lives where we finally ask the ever-looming question, “Is this all there is?” And most of us coast along…

One finger, two finger, three finger, four…sometimes even that’s not enough and you need to go the full five. To fisting! Huzzah! Tonight we’re joined by the amazing Andre Shakti to talk about fisting, best practices, intensity, and what it’s like to have a full hand inside you. You can find Andre Shakti at andreshaktixxx.com and on twitter @AndreShakti. Andre mentioned Sassy by Sliquid water based anal gel lubricant and Swiss Navy Silicon lubricant. This episode we featured Sock Puppet by Sticky Biscuits! They have a new song out, Ungooglable You! We also featured Volant – Full Circle…

We discovered tonight’s guest Andre Shakti after seeing her in the wonderful adult film Marriage 2.0, naturally smitten, we followed that internet rabbit hole down and discovered her site and the other work she’s done. We immediately wanted to have her on the Swingset to talk about a subject we’ve talked around but never directly about, live porn and web camming, and as it’s arguably the thing that has changed porn most over the last decade. This Episode brought to you by traumatic near tragedy in Toy Story 3 and Windows 10. Windows 10, the operating system that won’t allow…

We here on the swingset have a lot of sex. #explanabrag. We’ve spoken at length about how casual that sex may actually be, and that definition has changed over the years for many of us. Tonight on Life on the Swingset the podcast we’re talking about what casual sex means to us, and debate whether it can cross over into something resembling TOO casual. Support Life on the Swingset by buying a shirt, buying condoms, leaving us a review on iTunes or Stitcher, or by leaving us a tip! You can leave us a tip for every episode we release, including some special rewards for those willing to tip us just…

For our first episode of 2016 we return to the mailbag for another listener question gang bang. We talk about seeking a well endowed man for an MFM threesome, who should pay for the hotel, swinging vs poly, should you warn before ejaulating from a blowjob, newbies and being left out, and toys that’ll work for a gspot and prostate in pegging. Questions have been edited for time and clarity. If you have a question for The Swingset, please call 573-55 SWING that’s 573-557-9464 to leave your voicemail for an upcoming mailbag episode! Toys mentioned during tonight’s episode: The Fuze…

Today, on this last day of 2015, we commit to one more gang bang… the mailbag episode. We discuss dating apps, changes in desire, situational erectile dysfunction and jealousy and panic attacks. Questions have been edited for time and clarity. If you have a question for The Swingset, please call 573-55 SWING that’s 573-557-9464 to leave your voicemail for an upcoming mailbag episode! Support Life on the Swingset by buying a shirt, buying condoms, leaving us a review on iTunes or Stitcher, or by leaving us a tip! You can leave us a tip for every episode we release, including some special rewards for those willing to tip us just a…

Hey, it’s Cooper, and boy, it’s the holidays again, and here I sit in the Ski Chalet high atop Mount Swingset, crackling fire, hot chocolate spiked with RumChata, wearing my 10th Doctor onesie and reminiscing. I think about all that’s happened this year, the things that changed, my god. The only thing that could make this evening better is…oh, look out the window! Why it’s Ginger Bentham %smalltalk% While you’re helping yourself to a drink, Gin, I see another good friend, former swinger president himself, Dylan Thomas! %smalltalk% Why it’s Katie Mack! Welcome to the Chalet Support Life on the…

The degree of complexity in relationship dynamics is exponential in non-monogamy. What that bullshit was trying to say, was that people are complicated, and every time you add one to your life, things get more complicated. One of the most difficult situations in non-monogamy is helping your partner or paramour deal with major life and relationship flux that doesn’t directly involve you. Support Life on the Swingset by buying a shirt, buying condoms, leaving us a review on iTunes or Stitcher, or by leaving us a tip! You can leave us a tip for every episode we release, including some…