Sex with Sex Geeks May Have Ruined Me for Sex with Muggles
I had a great first sexydate with a new Friend With Benefits (FWB) this week…
Author Kat Stark
Kat Stark
Kat is a sex-positive, geeky, Canadian, pansexual, deviant, slutty, feminist pervert who came to ethical non-monogamy 21-years into her relationship with her husband. After a quick toe-dip to test the waters (and hours of obsessive reading and podcast consumption), they dove in and she almost can't imagine they ever lived any other way. Labels never give a totally clear picture, but she considers herself non-monogamous and polyamorous, though she occasionally swings. She's also a podcaster and audiobook narrator. onthewetcoast.com @WetcoastKat on Twitter.
A Slut By Any Other Name
I am a slut. I have pretty strong feelings when I type that sentence or…
Disconnected: When Your Partner Travels With Another
This was a hard week. Possibly the hardest I’ve had in quite a while that…
Squirting 101
Can I learn to do that? That question, or the variation Can my wife/girlfriend learn…
Stepping Out of My Comfort Zone
I love going to play parties and getting my sexy on in a semi-public space.…
The Scent of You
The fragrance hit me as I lay snuggled in close to Flick’s bare chest. I’d…
Outsider Looking In
Non-monogamy is full of weirdos. I mean this in the best way since I’d classify…
Getting Sultry: Finding Community in Sex Positive Play Spaces
There’s a monthly sex-positive play party event we’ve been to that takes place in the…
Stop Being So Damned Nice!: Deprogramming & Finding Your Voice
“You’re going to be a terrible wife.” I was 20 years old and I took…
Non-Monogamy Taught Me to Love My Big Booty
Ooh, sex with strangers–or at least with new people–this is going to be awesome! Oh…