Hey sexies! Ginger here dying to help out a swinger or two with some advice. Prof and I have been there…and there and there. You get the idea. Here are some thoughts for this hottie swinger looking to let some playfriends down easy. “If you have played with a couple once or twice, but then decided you are not interested in playing with them anymore for whatever reason, how do you let them know without offending them? There is a couple that we met during our first experience and they are nice people, have lots of great advice and they…
Author: Ginger
As we have moved through this vanilla phase, I’ve realized just how busy an ethical non-monogamist’s life actually is. Even though we haven’t had the time to actively date, we are still building and maintaining relationships that mean something to us. Some are long-time friends we miss. Some are new budding relationships that have fantastic promise. And some are just fun messages from brand new hotties we haven’t met yet, but would love to find the time to meet.
What a treat to get a brand new strap-on harness to put through its paces with a super sexy partner! Having not used one before, I was excited to get my hands on a SpareParts Joque Harness. My go-to harnesses are leather. As much as I love the feel of the leather against my skin, I’ve always wanted to try a harness that I could just throw in the washer after a hot session. You can even wear this spandex and polyester blend in the shower if your play session takes you there.
Oh, kissing! Kissing is truly souls entangled. I so love to kiss…make out, really. I don’t consider it a quick stop on the foreplay route. For me it is a destination in and of itself. Often we get so distracted by the carnal delights that yet await us, we forget to delight in the kissing itself. This past weekend partying with the Swingset crew, I was in utter paradise. Seriously! Every single sexy hottie I had the good fortune to kiss was an extraordinarily gifted kisser! I share this, not to brag or to call attention to the fact that…
It seems as though I have been inundated with exposure to all things female orgasm lately: personal conversations, news articles, books, research, podcasts. . . I have gleaned a number of titillating and novel insights from these various sources, but f…
Oh so HOT here in Miami! With so many sexy vibes, I’m diving in with my first blog post. The Prof does such a fantastic job sharing our thoughts and perspective, it has taken a catalyst like Swingfest to get me fired up to write. One fact is crystal cl…
Prof and I have a new fun bedtime pastime: browsing porn together. YouPorn makes it so easy to have a broad spectrum of categories and ways to search. We climb into bed with our iPad and let the fun begin! Although I’ve found that what is fun about this pastime is less the porn watching and more the browsing.
The specialty electronics retailer, Brookstone, has begun carrying the oh so elegant and admired Lelo products. Yes, you read that right, Lelo, as in (shhhhh….don’t say it too loud) VIBRATORS! Oh, I’m sorry, I mean personal and intimate massagers.
It never fails. On Halloween, swingers will party. Halloween is the perfect storm of swinger fun. We have the excuse to be scantily clad. We can show our interests and creativity through the costumes we choose. And the costumes are an immediate icebreaker. Inevitably, when Prof and I head to a lifestyle Halloween party, we always notice the crowd starts the night a bit more gregarious, adventurous and (ahem) friendly. During conversation, everyone seems to share “how long we’ve been waiting” for Halloween to arrive. Preparing for Halloween parties is serious swinger business. Planning and discussion of costumes typically begins…
Oversexed and aggressive: A couple of qualities you are likely to hear if you asked a vanilla person about what swingers are like. While I’ll heartily admit to being the former (although I can’t speak for everyone), I have encountered very few hotties who have come across as the latter. In fact, what I have discovered is quite the opposite. Many sexies I have been fortunate to meet and date have been highly skilled in the art of the tease: the long, delicious, playful seduction dance. Swingers are superior flirters, because we get a lot of practice. We get to…