SS 385: The Shame of Desire, the Consideration of Risk – Friday Night Delights


Ginger, Tonia, Ryan aka Prof, and Dylan get together for a night of Friday Night Drinking and Delights and accidentally have a deep conversation about desire, shame, selfishness, risk-aware relative to sex and COVID-19, exposure networks and the complication of the return of feelings of jealousy and selfishness, but not before engaging in discussion on:

  • rgb lighting… from the inside
  • jalapenos, easy-tear vinyl gloves, and nitrile gloves
  • period euphemisms
  • uv sterilization… of the vagina
  • bush / pubic hair
  • christmas lights in the bush
  • bush light
  • busch light #ad #sponsored
  • a sex party with a bush light dress code sponsored by busch light #ad #sponsored
  • letterkenny
  • puck bunnies
  • men who grow

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Episode Introduction Music- “Studio” Steve Wallace – Mega Man 2 – Level Select

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  1. I’d like to throw an adult orgy in Bend Oregon. I’m a creative professional. Please let me know how we can work together and wgat steps are needed to get this started. This will be be a fun and safe environment for everyone involved.

    • As wonderful as that sounds, we
      1 – Don’t generally work with people / businesses to throw play parties … at this time
      2 – considering COVID-19 we won’t be endorsing any events though god do I fucking look forward to the day that we can!
      3 – keep up that energy though… we’re going to need all the orgies we can muster!

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