The Swingset Takes Over Desire 2017

Less Than 5 Rooms Remain!

96% Booked!

We at Life on the Swingset (The Swinging & Polyamory Podcast) are hosting our sixth annual trip to the greatest place on Earth: Desire Resort & Spa in Cancun, Mexico. This is our second takeover, allowing us to bend and shape the trip to be most inclusive and spectacularly geeky trip in the resort’s history, bringing together nudists, polyamorous quads, triads, couples looking to explore, long time swingers, polyamorists, exhibitionists, BDSMers, and those just curious, whose sexuality run the gamut from straight, to bi, to queer, and pansexual.

We will be in charge of the evenings’ entertainment, the theme nights, activities, and DJ Dylan will run wild with the resort’s music. We will again host a dungeon night for kinky folk, including St Andrews Crosses and flogging benches, classes on squirting, fisting, pegging, flogging, and more, several gang bangs and orgies, dueling Sybians, and the freedom to truly be our gloriously varied selves in paradise.

This year Tristan Taormino, author of the non-monogamy bible Opening Up, filmmaker, and educator, will be joining us. There are few people out there who better represent our vision of inclusivity, exploration, and glorious sexuality, than Tristan. She will join us in providing classes and discussions, and helping us all push at those boundaries around us and experience a week of wanton abandon and hedonism.

On our trip you’ll be able to explore to your heart’s content, following your whims and desires to play parties both hosted and pop-up, evening themed costume nights, demos of sex swings, floggings, and pegging, live podcast recordings, karaoke, wine socials, cocktails, prizes and giveaways, foam parties, or just relaxing by the pool, beach, or in the hot tub. It’s all there for you to pick and choose.

Desire Resort and Spa is NOT a large resort, and the number of rooms available are limited, so if you’re interested in coming to paradise with Life on the Swingset, you should put down a deposit with our wonderful travel coordinators at Char Travel NOW! Our trip has sold out every year we’ve held it, and is already booking fast! We’re certain this will sell out again for 2017, and it’s hard as hell to turn people away, even though we can say “There’s always next year!”

To those who haven’t been to Desire before, close your eyes and picture the finest all-inclusive resort. See its beach and swimming pools, its fine cuisine, its top shelf booze, its beautifully appointed rooms and buildings…Oh, and did we mention it’s full of open-minded sexy people?! Every level of openness is welcomed here, from those just looking to watch, to those filling their suitcases with leather, whips, and chains.

Desire is a place to let go and be yourself, free from the confines of the boring part of the world, where we can embrace the fact that our lives truly aren’t like other people’s.

Come spend a week in paradise with Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, JV Altharas & Shara from Ending the Sexual Dark Age, and our special guest Tristan Taormino!

For a taste of what a Life on the Swingset trip to Desire is all about, check out the many articles and podcasts below from our past trips. If you have any other questions, please feel free to email Cooper at

Contact Char Travel to put down your deposit today!

Theme Nights

While Desire Resort and Spa has their own regular theme nights, these are the themes for our upcoming trip!

Pride/Rainbow/True Colors
Fractured Fairytales (i.e: Perverted Diznee)

Horny Holidays
Stage & Screen
Alt History/Steampunk
Bods in Space
Heroes & Villains


Here are some of the classes or events you’ll be able to participate in on our trip. (Or not, you do you!)

Speed Dating
Pegging Discussion and Demonstration

Themed Orgies & Gang Bangs
Fisting Demo
Flogging Demo
Live Podcasting
Wine Social
Foam Parties


These rates includes seven nights for two people, 1 room, food and drink included. Deposit is only one night’s stay

Deluxe Garden View room: $3,976
Superior Garden View room: $4,186
Deluxe Ocean View room: $4,438
Garden View jacuzzi room: $4,830
Ocean View Jacuzzi room: $5,334
Passion Suites: $6,958
Desire Suites: $11,840