Is This What Poly Feels Like?
Yesterday I spent the whole day connecting nearly every hour of the day with a…
Browsing: multiple partners
SS 236: Casual Sex and You and Us
We here on the swingset have a lot of sex. #explanabrag. We’ve spoken at length…
SS 232: My Partner’s Break-Up – Dealing With Relationship Fluctuations outside your Primary Swinging & Poly Relationships
The degree of complexity in relationship dynamics is exponential in non-monogamy. What that bullshit was…
SS 216: Dating – Being Right With and Doing Right By Your People
We all go on dates. Maybe it’s a play date with another sexy couple. Maybe…
Consensual Non-Monogamy: Real and No Big Deal
Consensual non-monogamy continues to trend in the mainstream media. Since Swingset began, we have been…
Why I Love The Swinger Lifestyle: Variety
I was thinking the other day, “What do I get out of the swinger lifestyle?…
Non-Monogamy: Taking Advantage of a Mononormative Society
So. I have met a man who won’t get involved with me, sexually, unless I…
Who’s On Top? It’s All About Communication
The next question I get when folks get past the polyamory part of the equation…
Time Management in Non-Monogamy
“People assume that time is a strict progression of cause to effect, but *actually* from…
Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell – Or Oversharing Nazi?
I’ve met a few poly couples and read about many more who have a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (DADT) policy in their relationship. They both date other people, but have a rule that they should share as little as possible about their outside relationships with each other. I can’t decide if this is a brilliant idea or a really terrible idea for a relationship.