It’s Not a Competition. Except That It Sort Of Is.
“Love is infinite. Time is not.” It’s one of the oft-repeated truisms of polyamory and…
Browsing: Blogs
I Love Friend Sex!
My husband, Flick, and I recently celebrated three years since our gateway threesome with the…
Swingset Year 6: In the Middle
I can’t believe it’s been a year since I last wrote. It was quite a…
On Consent
I’ve written before about being in an open relationship when you’re accidentally monogamous. That was…
My Swingset Takes Over Desire 2017 Moments
This year at Swingset Takes Over Desire wasn’t the endless hedonistic revel it has been…
The More The Merrier (Until It’s Not)
Non-monogamy is an inherently challenging relationship style, and not just because of the things many…
But We Scheduled This Months Ago: When Pre-Planning Meets Reality
We all have the ideal visual in our heads of what it’s going to be…
The Lonely Pervert
Listening to a podcast recently, an author was discussing his book on loneliness in gay…
On Being Judged
A few week’s ago, I was catching up with an old friend, who had recently…
Awkward Your Way Into My Pants
Our eyes meet across the hot tub. You smile. Oooh. That’s a nice little zing.…