Because of this site, I’ve spent a lot of time over the last few months listening to and reading about people’s new adventures in swinging. It’s funny, but even though it’s only been 5 years, I’d forgotten how frustrating the very beginning can actually be. One of the complaints I hear over and over from new swingers is that few people respond to their emails. Sometimes they anxiously wonder if there is something wrong with them, and other times they get angry, insisting that the swinging world is just full of rude people without the decency to reply back to…
Author: Holly Clark
Once we returned home from Hedonism, Tyler and I decided that we no longer wanted to be just vacation Swingers. One of the things we noticed right away was that we weren’t really a no-strings-attached couple. I felt a little sad leaving Hedonism knowing that our new friends were from towns hundreds of miles away. There wasn’t going to be a repeat of our adventure, at least not with those couples. So we decided we wanted to find real people near us to create real relationships. The first site we ran across was a commercial site that in hindsight was…
One of the many surprises of Swinging is how quickly close bonds are formed. Within weeks or months of meeting a new couple, it is entirely possible to know them as well (or better) than their long-time friends. Hours of pillow talk will do that.