Author: Blue

mad culinary scientist. curious voyeur. aimless wanderer. geek, nerd, procrastinator. panromantic polyamorous pagan. bdsm switch. refuses to adhere to any of your silly preconceptions.

Jealousy has been a part of our journey into a polyamorous lifestyle from the beginning. The evolution of it is most clearly described through Ark, who has been getting what I can only explain as the “raw end of the deal.” He has not yet grasped compersion, so even now while things are getting easier for him to accept, he still has times where he gets jealous and grumpy. First, let me explain something about my relationship with my husband. It has always felt like we were made to be with each other. I never like to say that someone…

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