Author: Blue

Sometimes my husband makes me feel guilty about spending time with Kitten. He doesn’t do it on purpose, and he has gotten much better about it (mostly because we’ve talked about it over and over), but he gets jealous and cops an attitude. My first reaction is to feel sad and hurt and (yes) guilty. But as time goes on, if I let it fester, I get angry. I don’t have an explosive attitude like some fire-sign folk. Instead, I simmer… boil… burn like molten lava. It is usually my anger that makes me say stupid things (when he wouldn’t…

How often do you walk around at work, or at the mall, or anywhere, and wonder if the people around you feel as lucky as you do? Is the person in the car next to you at the stoplight a swinger? Is the teller at the bank a polyamorist? How lucky are we, the few, the different, who have opened up our minds, our hearts and our bodies to let in more than the average man (or woman)? Sometimes I feel like I’m walking on Cloud 9. For a long time, all I could think about was how lucky I…

Blue spins an erotic tale of playtime with Kitten and a dildo.

Blue comes up against the cold hard reality that some friends simply will not be able to deal with the fact that she’s in a polyamorous relationship.

Blue takes us back to her first orgasm, how masturbation and orgasms have changed for her over the years, and orgasming with someone else.

Photo provided by Marco Gomes Hey sexy people, Cooper here. Blue came to me with a proposal, to document her journey into Polyamory. I told her to climb on up and take a swing. “I am definitely in love with her.” Not that strange a sentence. Millions, billions of people probably think or say the same thing every day, in their own language or in their own way. Maybe it’s a little more unique because I said it and I’m a woman. It takes the cake because I was saying this to my husband. I’ve always had this little “problem,”…

Blue tackles growing pains of an ever evolving and shifting relationship landscape in her triad with Kitten and Ark

Blue talks about many variations on Polyamorous living arrangements including children and co-habitation

Blue talks about the importance of sex in relationships monogamous and non-monogamous, and ease of orgasms.

Blue talks about a new relationship being added to the mix, and how in polyamory sometimes it’s difficult to detect where relationship definitions lie.