TMSG 011: Tobi Hill-Meyer – Tell Me Something Good


Before we get to our guest’s storytelling portion of the episode we wax poetic for a while about our sex lives, including our thoughts on “maintenance sex” and how we both feel a little lonely with our partners being away, though Sophie is definitely suffering a little more than Samantha.

Then it’s time to get to our guest, Tobi Hill-Meyer. We sat down with Tobi while she was here recently for the Feminist Porn Awards, accepting the Most Dazzling Docu-porn award. Tobi told us a thought-provoking story of how challenging she’s found it as a trans woman to have anonymous sex. Then we got a little bonus story about feminist porn and had a great chat about feminist porn and the politics that surround it.

Tobi Hill-Meyer is just about your average multiracial, pansexual, transracially inseminated queerspawn, genderqueer, trans, dyke, colonized mestiza, pornographer, activist, writer. Tobi’s writings can be found at and on SexisMagaizine, and a variety of books. She won Emerging Filmmaker 2010 from the Feminist Porn Awards for her work directing the first porn film by and for trans women, Doing it Ourselves: The Trans Women Porn Project and has since gone on to win other awards and create the sex-positive porn site, Doing It Online, with a trans female focus.

Find her on Twitter @tobitastic.

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Thanks for listening. We’ll see you on Tuesday, May 12th for our next episode with Miko Technogeisha.


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