Author: Miko Technogeisha

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Technogeisha is a sex positive kinkster with an insatiable curiosity. She and her husband spent lots of time hanging with the LA fetish crowd but never truly opened up. That all changed after finding Life on the Swingset. No longer content to be a virtual voyeur, she is actively pursuing the life non-monogamous. Having a passion for research (that apparently borders on fetish) has led her to mine the internet and devour books for information about all aspects of open relationships and sexuality. It’s wonderful to be invited to share that passion with all of you. Technogeisha not only writes but works behind the scenes on the Swingset.

I can’t believe it’s been a year since I last wrote. It was quite a year with not much positive to mention. I’m sure not quite as much of a year as someone who had to deal with fires, and floods, and civil rights violations, but it was still almost too much for me to handle. I’ve often heard the universe won’t give you more than you can handle. Well, I’ve gotten to the point where I really wish the universe would start underestimating me. All those goals I wrote in my last post never quite materialized. Instead, I spent…

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It feels like this year went extremely fast. Probably because I spent most time hurtling through the day trying to get as much done as possible. I knew I had to do this post last week, but my son got sick then the time was stolen from me. I lost track of the days, even though I look at my google calendar several times a day. Such is my life right now. So much to do, so little time is an unwelcome mantra. One of many things I often say like, “I wish there were more hours in a day.”…

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Valentine’s day is just around the corner. Here are some last minute gift ideas for those of you still looking for the perfect sexy gift. Amazon.com is a great place for gifts if you find you’ve missed your fave online sex shop’s shipping deadline and you need something shipped really fast. You can find a surprising amount of sex toys, lubes, and other sexy stuff. There’s just often way too much to wade through to get to the good stuff and very little informed suggestions or help. To save you some time here is a list of 10 gift ideas…

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I almost didn’t write an anniversary post this year but decided to crank one out at the last minute. I mostly didn’t feel like writing because it was a bit disappointing not doing much better since my last post. Most of the past year was spent on a continued downward spiral. Four years ago I wrote about taking a chance, strapping on those wings, and leaping with only the hopes of learning to fly. So much has happened since that first leap. After a short time soaring, the wind just died away and I felt myself lose momentum. I spent…

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Over nearly my entire life, at least since going through puberty at an early age, there’s been a cold war brewing in my mind and body between sex, stress and depression. There is a seemingly never-ending battle between my libido and the physical and hormonal effects of stress and depression. I would fall from the ecstatic highs of a healthy sex drive to frustrating lows that make you feel like your body has just flipped a dampening switch. I also had those pesky libido reducing hormones that come out only when a women becomes pregnant and has children. My depression…

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I haven’t been too keen on looking back on this year but after much thought I figured I should share anyway. Looking at my last two anniversary posts I seem to have a song that sums up my year. I realized a certain song has been playing in my head nearly my entire life because it seems to fit all too well. If I needed to pick a theme song this would be it, No One Is To Blame by Howard Jones. “You can dip your foot in the pool but you can’t have a swim/You can feel the punishment…

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As usual, I ‘ve been too busy to write. Not too busy to write in general but too busy to write a blog. I didn’t want to let the second anniversary of my first Swingset post to pass without something. I’ve posted 300 word blogs before and since I wasn’t sure what to write I though keeping it simple would be better. I can come up with something a few hours before midnight PST, right? Well, the universe has a strange way of working and now I find myself worrying I can keep under our word count maximum before I…

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The Crash Pad Series Episode 152 stars Chocolate Chip and Nikki Darling. The episode starts with them returning from a movie. The question is asked, what do they want to do now? Nikki starts to kiss Chocolate Chip. As their kissing continues, Chip picks Nikki up and puts her on the bed. They continue to kiss then Chip takes Nikki’s pants off. Chip kisses and slaps Nikki’s ass, you can tell they really enjoy her ass. After some touching, kisses and a light smack, Chip tells Nikki they want to tie her to the bedposts. Nikki agrees. Chip puts Nikki’s…

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In this Crash Pad Series episode, Episode 151, we get to meet Hayley Fingersmith and Sugar Blair. Hayley is smoking hot and Sugar is deliciously sexy. We immediately find out that Hayley is cheating on her girlfriend with Sugar. Sugar is worried Hayley’s girlfriend will find out. Hayley tells Sugar her girlfriend hasn’t fucked her properly in ages. Sugar seems easily convinced as they start to kiss passionately, Hayley warming Sugar up with her touches and kisses. Sugar pushes Hayley onto the bed where they continue to kiss. Sugar sucks Hayley’s nipples through the sexy lace body stocking she’s wearing.…

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When I heard about The Big Book of Orgasms – 69 Sexy Stories I just knew I had to review it. I haven’t done very many book reviews this past year, time has been somewhat tight and I want to make sure I’ve really read the book to review it. This one I just couldn’t resist. I’ve been a fan of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s anthologies but I was extra excited to hear about this one. Lady Cheeky, who is a Swingset favorite and a fellow LA Sex Geek, had a story included in this book. There were also several other…

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