I am eminently reasonable. In theory, it’s a great quality to have. I’m able to…
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Many of us in non-monogamy land started out in monogamous relationships. Not necessarily because those…
My husband, Flick, and I recently celebrated three years since our gateway threesome with the…
This year at Swingset Takes Over Desire wasn’t the endless hedonistic revel it has been…
Non-monogamy is an inherently challenging relationship style, and not just because of the things many…
We've all spent a big chunks of our your lives trying to transform relationships from "kind of okay" into "good". Most of us wait to have big conversations about what our relationships will look like until, well, long after they're already a problem, but what if we could, instead, do that work early instead of
Listening to a podcast recently, an author was discussing his book on loneliness in gay…
Like so many things in our lives, non-monogamous activity can be cyclical. There are times…
Our eyes meet across the hot tub. You smile. Oooh. That’s a nice little zing.…
It is always risky, telling people what you're into, what you want, that you like them, but as we've found out it's often essential in getting anywhere in non-monogamy and in life. Tonight Dirty Lola, Cooper S. Beckett, Dr. Liz Powell, and Dylan Thomas discuss how to put yourself out there and how to take it