Maybe I’m just naive, overly trusting, or look at the Lifestyle through rose-colored glasses, but…
Browsing: honesty
A couple of weeks ago I wrote a post called The Polyamorous Mediator, in which…
Joe and I like kissing. A lot. By this (in addition to the joys of…
Cooper here with a question that has actually come up for Marilyn and I in…
Hey sexies! Ginger here dying to help out a swinger or two with some advice.…
Some swinger haters seem to be particularly riled by my active involvement in my church community. The assumption seems to be that swinging and religion/spirituality are not compatible. I figure it is time for me to state my views on this matter.
As we have moved through this vanilla phase, I’ve realized just how busy an ethical non-monogamist’s life actually is. Even though we haven’t had the time to actively date, we are still building and maintaining relationships that mean something to us. Some are long-time friends we miss. Some are new budding relationships that have fantastic promise. And some are just fun messages from brand new hotties we haven’t met yet, but would love to find the time to meet.
In a lot of cases with the non-monogamy lifestyle there are a lot of parents that keep that lifestyle away from their kids to the extent that they never let their kids know who they truly are and who they truly love. There are others that keep the lifestyle respectfully away from their children, but don’t hide who they are from them.
So how does swinging work if you are only sexually interested in one of the partners? Should you avoid them? Do you stand the risk of hurting the other side of the partnership if you are not interested in women or is this normal?
Photo by NeoGaboX I think Prof and I are pretty open-minded. Even for swingers, I…