Author: Intellectual Foreplay

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Ginger and the Professor indulge their sapiosexual selves for discussions about relationships, non-monogamy, and working and playing together.

Ginger and Ryan get frisky and talk orgasms while sailing. While orgasms obtained by any method are delightful, some climaxes create a little more toe curlin’ than others. Ginger puts Ryan on the spot to name his top five ways to orgasm and she returns the favor. Come aboard! (Heh.) Send feedback or suggestions for topics to Ginger and Prof! Email Ginger at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerbentham @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Find Ginger and Prof on Instagram @gingerbentham and @ryanakaprof. Also follow @swingsetlife and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness! Travel…

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Ginger and Ryan invite you onto the deck in the sunshine as they opine about one of their favorite sex positions! Eventually they get to talking about different apps, media, and technology that cultivate intimacy between the two of them and also among their whole polycule. One part saucy storytelling, one part tech discussion, and one part exploring what creates intimacy; shaken, not stirred, then sipped while listening to the city and seascape in the background. Send feedback or suggestions for topics to Ginger and Prof! Email Ginger at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and…

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In the first ever episode with guests, Ginger and Ryan are joined by Dr. Dave and Dylan in a bedcast from our trip to Naughty in N’awlins after a stellar dinner and then a creative round one of sexy time. All manner of New Orleans reflection including delicious food, drinks, and desserts parlay back into round two of sexy time for the evening. Prepare to find yourselves hot and bothered not only by the spicy conversation, but also the incidental pleasure sounds from the stage bed in that Naughty in N’awlins penthouse. While this episode may still be considered intellectual, it is heavy on the foreplay, sapiosexuals. Prepare yourselves accordingly.

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Ginger and Ryan dig deep into their own relationship, as well as their current and past poly relationships, and explore what’s worked for them and where they’ve fallen short. They call this process ‘holding up the mirror’ for each other to reflect back to each other the real thoughts and emotions they’ve experienced in their own relationship, as well as with their poly partners. Ginger courageously owns her own past mistakes around “re-entry” from when Ryan had sexual experiences that didn’t include her.

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Join Prof and Ginger in the bath while they bring you into their world of what they call “energy play.” They discuss ancient traditions, rejection of dogma, sensations, and how it is real for them. Ginger talks more about the practical “how to” for exploring energy play by yourself or with partners. Using mindfulness is accessible to anyone who wants to play with it. Get your woo on a little bit and see how it feels! Send feedback or suggestions for topics to Ginger and Prof! Email Ginger at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with…

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Prof and Ginger take to the bath to take on body image. The honesty is as naked as Prof and Ginger themselves. A heartfelt, emotional conversation is here for you that is as raw as they have ever been. It’s a marathon Intellectual Foreplay episode, so brace yourself. Every BODY has a story and they are all beautiful. Send feedback or suggestions for topics to Ginger and Prof! Email Ginger at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!

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Prof and Ginger sip tequila and espresso Martinis while reliving all the sexiness of Desire with the Swingsetters. Flirting, playing, and maybe a cheese plate or two later, Prof and Ginger resolve to come again and again…back to paradise. Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!

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Prof and Ginger experiment with the nuance of their Dominant/submissive dynamic. Within a solid, long-term, equitable relationship, Prof and Ginger demonstrate that Dominance and submission have a functional effect on keeping a relationship fun and stimulating. As more of the culture is exposed to Fifty Shades of Grey, realistic expression of kink dynamics are informative and necessary to balance the superficial representations of BDSM that have become ubiquitous. See kink in the mainstream in the New York Times: http://www.nytimes.com/2016/02/24/arts/music/a-composer-and-his-wife-creativity-through-kink.html?_r=0 Rock on, @mollena! Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com.…

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