Author: Dylan Thomas

As a co-host on Life on the Swingset and creator of The Gentleperverts' Social Club, Dylan Thomas speaks candidly about nonmonogamy, kink, and non-normative sexuality to eradicate the stigma and shame that keep people from expressing and being who they want. He brings awareness to issues involving gender identity, equal rights, and intersectionality by creating discussions with people who feel unaffected by them. He also creates learning opportunities for men to become stronger allies and better people. Find and feel free to engage him on Twitter.

Like any grown-up evil sexy organization, the Swingset has behind the scenes methods of communication. We only use the best 64bit DES encryption available and as a result… certain “communications” have gotten out. We’ve decided to “get ahead” of the leaks and post chat logs ourselves.

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I host a lot of play parties. I invite an eclectic mix of people to parties; swingers, poly folk, kinky people, combinations of all three, people who enjoy sexy atmospheres who don’t necessarily want to play, exhibitionists, people of any and every gender, orientation, and play preference out there and it’s all only limited by my extended social groups. Out of all these people, everyone has different music preferences, sometimes that runs through a particular culture (rave/goth/metal) and sometimes the preferences run through age group. I also have to examine my own music preference and resolve that with what I…

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If you’re here… you know why you’re here. Press play on the audio widget below to hear…whatever we’re putting out into the world! http://stream2.mpegradio.com:6969/lotss.mp3

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I’m kind of a cock ring connoisseur, not in the sense that I use them all the time, but in the sense that I think I understand my way around good cock rings. There are a few different types of cock rings but (at least in my head) I divide them into three separate categories; for his pleasure, for her pleasure, and for erection stamina. Most cock rings that try to do all three fail to do any adequately, but most that are for one function serve pretty well for that function. But I sit here, with a cigar box style…

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Cock rings! I have a funny relationship with cock rings. Most cock rings are meant to help lengthen erection time by slightly restricting the blood flow from the penis back into the body. It’s a neat, simple concept that generally works pretty well. However, things get a little more complicated when you’re uncircumsized. Placement is essential, making sure it works with the foreskin and not against it (folding issues, groupings of skin, etc…) is always something to look out for. But again, it still generally works well.

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I’m always on the hunt for a good cock ring, a good cock ring my pleasure, it can increase the duration of an erection, and it can help stimulate my partner in some of the right places. Our friends at the awesome Chicago sex positive erotic boutique Early to Bed gave me the Zero Tolerance Crossbones cock ring and decided to give it a look at see what it could do! This packaging for the Crossbones cock ring bills itself as a powerful cross bullet vibration system, complete with a diagram of six ways of equipping yourself for pleasure. Materials for…

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I’m new to anal play and anal stimulation. I’m exactly the market that the Nexus Neo and Nexus Glide Male G-Spot Massagers are targeted for. Why hadn’t I tried anal play before? It never really occurred to me that it’d be pleasurable, or enhance erections, or produce a more intense and longer lasting orgasm. It just didn’t come into conscious thought. These are three things that the Nexus line of g-spot toys claim to be able to help with. First, a bit of advice for those who have never tried anal stimulation / massage before; do not try this with a…

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(flips two cards over, face down) (picks left card) “#&$*” Ok, looks I drew the “start blog with terrible pun” card. So I’ve been sitting on a review of a couple of very interesting male g-spot massagers. (pause) Mainly because I want to rate these massagers very highly, but at the same time I did not enjoy them. See, I’ve never been a fan of anal, receiving never, giving, done it, but never been a fan. I have nothing against it, it just didn’t seem to do anything for me. However, Cooper’s been trying all sorts of new toys and…

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