Author: Cynder Sunshine

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Cynder Sunshine is a happily married woman who has been non-monogamous-in-theory with her husband since shortly before their marriage. Due to various obstacles like finances, children, and time, they only started practicing non-monogamy actively in the past few years. It's been a wild ride so far, but worth every moment for the awesome people she's met because of the lifestyle. Cynder enjoys ice cream, chocolate, coffee, cat videos, and having sex with the same friends who enjoy board games and science fiction movies.

We met online, and our chats were fun and friendly, but he identified immediately as a Dom, and I have never been that into BDSM. I figured, however, that even fun friendship was worth my time, so I kept talking to him. Even if we never had sex, it never hurts to have more friends in the community at large. Networking is important; he might know someone who knows someone else who is a perfect match for me. You just never know.   After a few months of chatting, we discovered that, although he lives a little far away, he…

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I am sorry for the hiatus, everyone. We had some setbacks late in 2015, and it took some time for us to process all the things that happened. I still do believe this lifestyle is the correct path for us, and even if we choose someday to stop our sexy adventures I want to continue the friendships I have found with these wonderfully open people. I love attending meet and greets, just to chat with people for whom discussing non-monogamy is completely normal and sane. I love the honesty and camaraderie I find with other people who like to explore…

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I met my husband before texting or the Internet was around. We met through a group of friends and hit it off very quickly despite some obvious differences. I love to read, I got straight As in school, and I rarely rocked the boat with authority figures. He grew up with undiagnosed dyslexia, was a class clown, and was a loner who got into fights regularly. Our similarities only became apparent after we started talking. We both love stories of all kinds, especially sci-fi. We watch TV, movies, and videos, and he listens to audiobooks voraciously. In the more modern…

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His voice put me temporarily at ease. I knew as soon as I heard him that I was in the right place, at the right time and that he was the exact person I was meant to see. Of course, we had signed up for a class being taught by him, but it hadn’t been entirely real until that moment. I’d heard his voice well over a hundred times before, sometimes for several hours in a row, but this was my first chance to see him in person. I didn’t turn around for just a moment longer, letting the anticipation…

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