We are learning more about the differences between full and soft swap. A big one seems to be the numbers game. We have always liked group play. As a soft swap couple, give us a six-some and we are happily like kids in a candy store sucking and licking and touching all around. Six is really ideal in soft swap. Enough to fit on one bed but tons of combinations.
The other night we were out partying with two couples. Both are full swap. I had unfinished business with the guy so I had my sights set on him. We ended up having to leave before the playing began. But in the car Mr D realized that if just one pairing occurs in a six-some the rest are predetermined, if everyone wants to swap. Huh.
I guess people can switch around but that becomes complicated with condoms and such. So six is a great number in soft swap but awkward in full swap conditions.
Maybe we just need a full on orgy to fulfill our crazy desires.