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    Full Swap or Soft Swap – The Numbers Game

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    By Mrs Doubleplay on March 8, 2012 Doubleplay

    full swap or soft swapWe are learning more about the differences between full and soft swap. A big one seems to be the numbers game. We have always liked group play. As a soft swap couple, give us a six-some  and we are happily like kids in a candy store sucking and licking and touching all around. Six is really ideal in soft swap. Enough to fit on one bed but tons of combinations.

    The other night we were out partying with two couples. Both are full swap. I had unfinished business with the guy so I had my sights set on him. We ended up having to leave before the playing began. But in the car Mr D realized that if just one pairing occurs in a six-some the rest are predetermined, if everyone wants to swap. Huh.

    I guess people can switch around but that becomes complicated with condoms and such. So six is a great number in soft swap but awkward in full swap conditions.

    Maybe we just need a full on orgy to fulfill our crazy desires.

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    Mrs. Doubleplay is 40-something mom living in the middle of America with kids, a career, and pretty house in the suburbs. She’s active in her local church, coaches the kids’ soccer games, and happens to have a secret life as a swinger. Married to her high school sweetheart, Mr. Doubleplay, the couple dipped their toes in the lifestyle for a couple of years but then dropped off the radar to have kids. They rejoined the lifestyle in 2005 and haven’t looked back. They have been soft swap from the start but are working their way toward greater forms of adventure as we meet hot couples on lifestyle vacations, swinger clubs, and online websites.

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    1. SFCuties on March 11, 2012 6:36 pm

      >becomes complicated with condoms
      Not really.  Just change whenever needed.  Never leave home without your own play-kit 🙂

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