Browsing: taking one for the team
Taking one for the team… Being a sacrificial lamb. Supposedly no one does it, at…
What do you do when one spouse needs the swinger lifestyle more than the other?…
Lets face it. Anyone that spends any amount of time on the Swingset is bound to encounter people that are interested in you or your partner sexually, when the same is not returned by one or both of you. Even vanillas deal with this, but only have to consider their personal feelings. We have our significant others to think about as well. Chemistry is a must. The attraction need not be physical necessarily, mental attraction is a powerful thing as well. Regardless of what it is that attracts the two of you, it must be there or things are just not gonna work out.
We’ve all heard the coined phrase seen in many swinger profiles, many of us have encountered it and even some have experienced first hand the concept of taking one for the team in the swinging community. But, what exactly does this mean?
One of the advantages of being the only player on my swinging squad is that I don’t have to take one for the team. There’s no one pressuring me to settle for something less-than-desirable so that he can enjoy a tasty morsel.
So how does swinging work if you are only sexually interested in one of the partners? Should you avoid them? Do you stand the risk of hurting the other side of the partnership if you are not interested in women or is this normal?
Team Doubleplay meet The Wonderfuls for a date, and discuss where their boundaries are when it comes to jealousy, taking one for the team, and attraction imbalance
In Episode 7, we discuss the difficulties inherent in finding a four way connection between…