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    New Strategies For Making The Mrs. Happy

    New Strategies For Making The Mrs. Happy

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    By Mrs Doubleplay on November 14, 2013 Blogs, Doubleplay, Written

    New Strategies For Making The Mrs. HappyIn our ongoing pursuit to find stiff, hard cocks when we play as a foursome, Mr. D and I have a new rule. I play first. He is not allowed to start fucking until it is on with me and the other guy. We have decided that we just need to be sure that my needs are met before I give up the big hard cock that is always ready and waiting with Mr. D.

    It’s not a perfect solution. I gave him the thumbs up and started fucking the other day. But as soon as my amazing stallion of a husband mounted the girl, her husband immediately went limp. My playtime was over. Mr. D handled it like a champ though. He called me over to suck her pussy and his balls while he was fucking her doggie style. Then he turned me around and started fucking me. And it was up to the girl to deal with the limp cock. I think we might be onto something here….

    Although I made the mistake of sharing this strategy with our new semi-regular playmates. And in that situation, my new partner and I are the ones that need to slow it down since the beautiful blonde and my husband like a slower pace. So if we start going at it, they feel like they need to “catch up.” So, my new strategy isn’t perfect. But on the whole, it’s a good rule of thumb to consider.

     

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    Mrs. Doubleplay is 40-something mom living in the middle of America with kids, a career, and pretty house in the suburbs. She’s active in her local church, coaches the kids’ soccer games, and happens to have a secret life as a swinger. Married to her high school sweetheart, Mr. Doubleplay, the couple dipped their toes in the lifestyle for a couple of years but then dropped off the radar to have kids. They rejoined the lifestyle in 2005 and haven’t looked back. They have been soft swap from the start but are working their way toward greater forms of adventure as we meet hot couples on lifestyle vacations, swinger clubs, and online websites.

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    1. Bella Pecosa on November 15, 2013 9:50 am

      Amen, Mrs. D! Through our year of playing with others and dealing with the fall out from each experience (good, bad and so-so) I finally came to this realization. I need to have my needs met first & if the other gent is uhhhh….not participating, take action and include me in yours. I love the way Mr. D handled it and will share with my Mr Fox.

      Bella X

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