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Poly Relationships: Domestic Affairs

I keep thinking that all of the posts I write for the Swingset need to be sexy and I’ve just been in such a “feeling” place. And then it occurred to me that a few feelings posts are likely okay. It’s not like swingers aren’t humans with...

In Which Interest Slays Jealousy (and I grow curious about my metamours)

I have of late, but wherefore I know not, become rather curious about my partners’ other relationships, or at the very least their other interests. It began in a quiet fashion, a few weeks ago, on Daddy-daughter day, when my Daddy and I were...

SS 171: Coming Out Kinky with Guest Jean Franzblau

Jean Franzblau, speaker, writer and performer of the one woman show “Coming Out Kinky: A Grown Up Comedy” joins us for a discussion of her show as well as a performed excerpt, and a discussion on being kinky in general and what it means...

The Dream Started To Feel More Like Memory – Part 1

I am a bisexual man. When I was growing up, I didn’t consciously find myself sexually attracted to guys. It really didn’t occur to me. In elementary school, I crushed on most of the girls my age and was interested in sex at a very early age. I...

CC 004: G-spotting and the Squirting Phenomenon

Squirting seems to be the holy grail for many G-spot enthusiasts. Katie and Ashley unpack why we’re so focused on squirting (and orgasms in general) and share their experiences in learning to love their G-spots. Podcast: Download (Durat

Nerves & Dysfunction

Women have it easy. That’s right, I said it.  The prevailing notion is that a man can and will fuck anything presented to him, (and, to be fair, some men CAN and WILL) but in the lifestyle there are a few added stressors that can make that...

“They’re Not Looking at Your Eyebrows, Honey” – The Mystery of Attraction and Swingers

One Saturday night as I put on and took off the fourth outfit, I peered closely at the mirror and lamented, “I can’t believe I forgot to get my eyebrows waxed before this party!” Prof’s response? “They’re not looking at your eyebrows,...

Cooper’s Safer Sex Kit – Condoms & Dental Dams & Gloves & Alcohol Swabs

I’ve mentioned my safer sex kit extensively over the years, and the kit itself has ballooned in that time. I’ll be the first to admit that my definition of safer sex (earlier “safe sex”) has changed since the moment I started...

Cultivate Compersion

Compersion. As I write this article, spell check protests every time I use the word. In fact, an attempt to look up the definition demonstrates that Merriam-Webster doesn’t even know what I am talking about when I say compersion. If you are a...

In Defense of Dick Pictures, Cock Shots – The Hard Truth

I have with me, at this very moment, a collection of pictures of my cock. I mean, not polaroids or anything, what is this, 1996? I have a collection of the hated, reviled, cock shots. You know the ones. Big dick in frame (not an #explanabrag)...

Poly Relationships: Domestic Affairs

I keep thinking that all of the posts I write for the Swingset need to be sexy and I’ve just been in such a “feeling” place. And then it occurred to me that a few feelings posts are likely okay. It’s not like swingers aren’t humans with...

In Which Interest Slays Jealousy (and I grow curious about my metamours)

I have of late, but wherefore I know not, become rather curious about my partners’ other relationships, or at the very least their other interests. It began in a quiet fashion, a few weeks ago, on Daddy-daughter day, when my Daddy and I were...

The Dream Started To Feel More Like Memory – Part 1

I am a bisexual man. When I was growing up, I didn’t consciously find myself sexually attracted to guys. It really didn’t occur to me. In elementary school, I crushed on most of the girls my age and was interested in sex at a very early age. I...

We Begin With Talk Of Drink and Debauchery – Hazy Memories of Desire

New Disclaimer: This post was written in Mexico in 2011, by an entirely too tipsy Cooper Beckett. As we count down the days until Desire 2014 (which you can totally still come to!), he hopes you enjoy this memory of the last time he came. Ahem. Was...

You’re Beautiful

A lot of us deal with insecurity or coming to terms with our “flaws.”  We carry stuff around from bad messages, or times we were hurt, and I had this kind of wonderful breakthrough and could see the falsehood of all that stuff I was carrying. I...

SS 171: Coming Out Kinky with Guest Jean Franzblau

Jean Franzblau, speaker, writer and performer of the one woman show “Coming Out Kinky: A Grown Up Comedy” joins us for a discussion of her show as well as a performed excerpt, and a discussion on being kinky in general and what it means...

CC 004: G-spotting and the Squirting Phenomenon

Squirting seems to be the holy grail for many G-spot enthusiasts. Katie and Ashley unpack why we’re so focused on squirting (and orgasms in general) and share their experiences in learning to love their G-spots. Podcast: Download (Durat

SS 170: The Messiness of Speaking Out About Sex and CatalystCon with Guest Dee Dennis

After the explosive finale of last March’s CatalystCon East, we bring Dee Dennis back on the show to discuss how hard it often is to get a dialog going about sex without having dissent everywhere. We try to parse the value of community vs...

SS 169: Full Swap – Swingset’s Partners Take Over The Show

It’s bizarro world and Life on the Swingset is going FULL SWAP. The Professor hosts this round table discussion featuring the partners of the Swingset, Ophilia Tesla, Tonia Thomas, and Ronin Technogeisha. They discuss being behind the scenes,...

CC 003: Sexual Shame, Insecurity, and Body Confidence

“Am I enough?” is a question we all ask ourselves at one point or another as we deal with sexual shame, insecurity, and body confidence. Katie puts on her psych hat, Ashley shares her love of Brene Brown, and both get vulnerable about...

Review: Pop Top Deluxe G-Spot

I was sent the Pop Top Deluxe G-Spot attachment for the Hitachi Magic Wand* in exchange for an unbiased review from Good Vibrations. The toy is made by Pleasure Works and was one I specifically asked Good Vibrations for because I’ve been...

Review: Envy Six Dual-Stim

A Jopen representative sent me the Envy Six because I was interested in a dual stimulation rechargeable vibe. My first impression was that it was a very smooth silicone coated toy while still being very firm. The packaging is kind of fancy, the box...

HedoVibes Round Up #45

Photo courtesy of Emma Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be...

The Shock Rocker – A Review of A Sex Machine

Perhaps I’m jaded. As I do this longer it becomes harder and harder to impress me, sex toy wise. I think that this is why, when our Holiday Toy Special comes around, year after year I throw my number one pick to the nJoy Eleven. It’s...

Hedovibes Round Up #43

Photo courtesy of Cara Sutra   Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you...