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Come out, Come out, Wherever You Are

It is my favorite time of the year. The days are as long as they are going to get, and the early mornings are cool and beautiful for running. The evenings are long and stretch past my occasional bedtime. I ran this morning on a path covered by...

SS 179: Gang Bang the Mailbag 16 – Unprotected Sex, Lies, Coming Out As Poly and more!

Sweet Gang Bang Sixteen! We’ve taken your questions and answered them on air! We discuss a single poly woman dating a monogamous guy, being new and a virgin in non-monogamy, coming out as polyamorous to your family, talking to our children,...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 1

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness. But for us, anytime is the season for swinging and parties. We decided to get a head start on Halloween by hosting a swinger murder mystery party. This was a terrific event and would be great...

Review: Bettie Page Spanking Bat

I have dreams about being bent over a chair, black bra and panties on that match my flowing black hair that’s draped over one shoulder and cascading to the floor. Silky soft backseam stockings are pulled up tight by a garter belt, and my hands...

Poly Speed Dating for Fun and Profit

Ok, I had first heard of the term speed dating from my Swingset hosts’ description of activities at Desire. I suppose the term is somewhat self-explanatory, but for those of us who haven’t tried it, doesn’t it seems a little…weird? I have...

Girls Just Want to Have Fun! – Hosting Girls’ Nights

Girls’ Nights Out are a relaxed, low-key way for women in the swing lifestyle to get to know each other and have fun. I’ve been organizing girls’ nights for my meet and greet group for nearly 2 years. My group currently meets...

Nerves & Dysfunction

Women have it easy. That’s right, I said it.  The prevailing notion is that a man can and will fuck anything presented to him, (and, to be fair, some men CAN and WILL) but in the lifestyle there are a few added stressors that can make that...

“They’re Not Looking at Your Eyebrows, Honey” – The Mystery of Attraction and Swingers

One Saturday night as I put on and took off the fourth outfit, I peered closely at the mirror and lamented, “I can’t believe I forgot to get my eyebrows waxed before this party!” Prof’s response? “They’re not looking at your eyebrows,...

Cooper’s Safer Sex Kit – Condoms & Dental Dams & Gloves & Alcohol Swabs

I’ve mentioned my safer sex kit extensively over the years, and the kit itself has ballooned in that time. I’ll be the first to admit that my definition of safer sex (earlier “safe sex”) has changed since the moment I started...

Cultivate Compersion

Compersion. As I write this article, spell check protests every time I use the word. In fact, an attempt to look up the definition demonstrates that Merriam-Webster doesn’t even know what I am talking about when I say compersion. If you are a...

Come out, Come out, Wherever You Are

It is my favorite time of the year. The days are as long as they are going to get, and the early mornings are cool and beautiful for running. The evenings are long and stretch past my occasional bedtime. I ran this morning on a path covered by...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 1

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness. But for us, anytime is the season for swinging and parties. We decided to get a head start on Halloween by hosting a swinger murder mystery party. This was a terrific event and would be great...

Poly Speed Dating for Fun and Profit

Ok, I had first heard of the term speed dating from my Swingset hosts’ description of activities at Desire. I suppose the term is somewhat self-explanatory, but for those of us who haven’t tried it, doesn’t it seems a little…weird? I have...

Traveling to Swing Part 3

In part 1 and part 2 of this article we explored the concept of destination swinging, the motivations for doing so and some associated benefits and disadvantages to that approach. In this final installment I’ll explore some ideas on where one can...

Sex Factoids: Anniversary and Random Facts

It’s our one year anniversary. So I can safely say that Mr. Scarlet and I are no longer newbies. We made it past the red pill/blue pill decision and decided to go full bore with the red pill realization that monogamy is bullshit (shout out to Mr....

SS 179: Gang Bang the Mailbag 16 – Unprotected Sex, Lies, Coming Out As Poly and more!

Sweet Gang Bang Sixteen! We’ve taken your questions and answered them on air! We discuss a single poly woman dating a monogamous guy, being new and a virgin in non-monogamy, coming out as polyamorous to your family, talking to our children,...

SS 178: A Swinging Primer with Cooper Beckett – Live at The Pleasure Chest Los Angeles

Cooper super-sizes his Swinging Primer, as you do when you’re teaching in LA. Class description: “Cooper Beckett, from the podcast Life on the Swingset, takes you through the common peaks and valleys of beginning swinging, covering...

CC 007: Hands on Sex Education – A Threesome with Alex Morgan

Join Ashley, Katie, and special guest Alex S. Morgan as we unpack the ethical implications of hands on sex education, sexological bodywork, and in person sex coaching. We also geek out about our experiences at CatalystCon, the joys of fisting, and...

SS 177: Erotica – Writing, Reading, Tweeting, Living It with Guest Rachel Kramer Bussel

Tonight we discuss erotica, writing it, reading it, tweeting it, living it with our guest Rachel Kramer Bussel. We discuss Rachel’s extensive history in both writing and editing erotica, where erotica fits in every day life, expression,...

SS 176: In Bed With The Semi-Nude Swingset

There is much to say about this recording. And also very little. You see it sits in a portion of our minds obscured and hazy, like it sits behind a drop of water, but who are we kidding, it sits behind drink. The foul stuff that has put us in a very...

Review: Bettie Page Spanking Bat

I have dreams about being bent over a chair, black bra and panties on that match my flowing black hair that’s draped over one shoulder and cascading to the floor. Silky soft backseam stockings are pulled up tight by a garter belt, and my hands...

Review: I Got A Robotic Blowjob from the Autoblow 2

A while back I reviewed the Realtouch, a masturbation machine, and was rather astonished to find it to be a pretty damned good product. Sure it was oversized, connected by large cables, heavy, and noisy, but it got me right to orgasm rather quickly...

Review: Pulse by Hot Octopuss

Do you think we, as producers, purveyors, purchasers, and patrons, could all just agree that it is unlikely that something will come along to “revolutionize” male masturbation in sex toy form? I’ve been doing this a while, and have...

Review: Fucking Sculptures Corkscrew – Beautiful Piece of Art, Mediocre Sex Toy

I have many pieces in my toy collection that I feel could be considered objects of art. The nJoy toys definitely qualify, several of the glass toys, a few wooden dildos. All pleasure objects. Art pieces. The Corkscrew from Fucking Sculptures...

Review: Pop Top Deluxe G-Spot

I was sent the Pop Top Deluxe G-Spot attachment for the Hitachi Magic Wand* in exchange for an unbiased review from Good Vibrations. The toy is made by Pleasure Works and was one I specifically asked Good Vibrations for because I’ve been...

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