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Confidence is Super Sexy

My resolution to just concentrate on my poly relationships and not swinging didn’t even last until the post on that was published. I am not going to let one crappy experience scare me away or let one asshole ruin good times for me. I think I am...

CC 001: Phone Sex & Other Filthy Aural Adventures

Are you mystified by phone sex? Do you find dirty talk intimidating? You’re not alone! Katie shares her fears about getting vocal and Ashley offers some insights based on her experience as a professional phone sex operator. Podcast:...

Beyond the Beginning

I am obsessed with the beginnings of things. Aren’t we all, though? I get so easily caught up in it all. The tangible physical sensation of connecting with someone new emotionally. In the beginning, when it’s all innuendo and flirting and...

“They’re Not Looking at Your Eyebrows, Honey” – The Mystery of Attraction and Swingers

One Saturday night as I put on and took off the fourth outfit, I peered closely at the mirror and lamented, “I can’t believe I forgot to get my eyebrows waxed before this party!” Prof’s response? “They’re not looking at your eyebrows,...

SS 166: Gang Bang The Mailbag 15 – Cheating Males & Unicorns, Girl Girl Play, One Penis Policy, & Bad Swinging Experiences

Another day, another gang bang of the old (and now thoroughly satisfied) mailbag. We get a response from a listener about our DP episode, as well as an eye opening picture (which we refuse to share!) We discuss speaking up in the moment, solo...

“They’re Not Looking at Your Eyebrows, Honey” – The Mystery of Attraction and Swingers

One Saturday night as I put on and took off the fourth outfit, I peered closely at the mirror and lamented, “I can’t believe I forgot to get my eyebrows waxed before this party!” Prof’s response? “They’re not looking at your eyebrows,...

Cooper’s Safer Sex Kit – Condoms & Dental Dams & Gloves & Alcohol Swabs

I’ve mentioned my safer sex kit extensively over the years, and the kit itself has ballooned in that time. I’ll be the first to admit that my definition of safer sex (earlier “safe sex”) has changed since the moment I started...

Cultivate Compersion

Compersion. As I write this article, spell check protests every time I use the word. In fact, an attempt to look up the definition demonstrates that Merriam-Webster doesn’t even know what I am talking about when I say compersion. If you are a...

In Defense of Dick Pictures, Cock Shots – The Hard Truth

I have with me, at this very moment, a collection of pictures of my cock. I mean, not polaroids or anything, what is this, 1996? I have a collection of the hated, reviled, cock shots. You know the ones. Big dick in frame (not an #explanabrag)...

The Sense of Self – Who You Are As A Swinger, and What You Like

The bounty of sexuality that opens for you when you first decide to step over the threshold into swinging can be at the same time wonderful and overwhelming. If you have been monogamous for your entire life thus far, even if you’ve had a lot...

Confidence is Super Sexy

My resolution to just concentrate on my poly relationships and not swinging didn’t even last until the post on that was published. I am not going to let one crappy experience scare me away or let one asshole ruin good times for me. I think I am...

Beyond the Beginning

I am obsessed with the beginnings of things. Aren’t we all, though? I get so easily caught up in it all. The tangible physical sensation of connecting with someone new emotionally. In the beginning, when it’s all innuendo and flirting and...

I Suck At Time Management (and titling, apparently)

My name is Cooper Beckett, and I am terrible at time management. As children life seems so vast and open and full of empty spaces. As adults we take after Roger Waters and ask what we should use to fill those empty spaces. We don’t even do it...

Erectile Dysfunction: A Bridge Too Far…

I have been swinging for almost a year now. From very humble beginnings, I have tried to preserve my thoughts and actions in this corner of the internet. There have been many smiles, a couple of laughs and a few tears. But throughout, my adventures...

Newbie Mistake #1: Deceived by Hormones

I have decided to elaborate on the part of my last post that related to oxytocin. It appears that some people have no idea what I was talking about. My girlfriend seemed to think I was talking about that drug that Rush Limbaugh was addicted to. That...

CC 001: Phone Sex & Other Filthy Aural Adventures

Are you mystified by phone sex? Do you find dirty talk intimidating? You’re not alone! Katie shares her fears about getting vocal and Ashley offers some insights based on her experience as a professional phone sex operator. Podcast:...

SS 166: Gang Bang The Mailbag 15 – Cheating Males & Unicorns, Girl Girl Play, One Penis Policy, & Bad Swinging Experiences

Another day, another gang bang of the old (and now thoroughly satisfied) mailbag. We get a response from a listener about our DP episode, as well as an eye opening picture (which we refuse to share!) We discuss speaking up in the moment, solo...

CC Zero: Sexy Story Time, An Introduction to Carnalcopia

Katie and Ashley share their origin story and discuss how two people can become friends even in the most unlikely of circumstances. Luckily, this reality show scenario has a happy ending! Podcast: Download (0.0KB)

SS 165: Gang Bang The Mailbag 14 – Swinging & Fairness, Fluid Bonding, & Oral Herpes Disclosure

We’re back, and we gang bang the ever willing mailbag filled with your questions! We talk about chasing the white whale, a potential fluid bonding statute of limitations, cold sores (hsv1) and kissing protocol, and swinging & fairness....

Eat The Rudecast

We don’t have a new Swingset episode this week ‘cuz, reasons. Summer, etc. Moving. You know the drill. That said, Miko, Ophilia, and I have released the first episode of Eat The Rudecast, an Unofficial Podcast about NBC’s Hannibal,...

HedoVibes Round Up #45

Photo courtesy of Emma Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be...

The Shock Rocker – A Review of A Sex Machine

Perhaps I’m jaded. As I do this longer it becomes harder and harder to impress me, sex toy wise. I think that this is why, when our Holiday Toy Special comes around, year after year I throw my number one pick to the nJoy Eleven. It’s...

Hedovibes Round Up #43

Photo courtesy of Cara Sutra   Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you...

Review: Lust L6 by Jopen – My Little Ivy

I must admit that I wanted the Lust L6 because I thought it looked weird. It’s an entirely unique design that I had never seen before and it left me tilting my head in various directions wondering just how it is meant to be used. The Lust L6 that...

Review: A Trio of Lubes from Wicked Sensual Care

Quite a lot of time has gone by since I last shifted my lube allegiance. In the early days of swinging, and the early days of this blog, I tried out just about every type of lube I saw. Mainly because other swingers had their own lube allegiances,...