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Fetish Fair Fleamarket 42 Trip Report – Part 2

If you missed part one, read it here. Something else Mrs. Duncan and I did at this Flea was to volunteer with the NELA folks. We had a free slot in the middle of the day Saturday and thought it would be a good idea to give back. We also had some...

SS 183: A Swinging Vacation – Live from Desire Resort & Spa – Life on the Swingset

Ginger, Professor, Miko, Ronin, Ophilia, and Cooper are out of the office this week. They’ve jet off to paradise in Mexico at Desire Resort and Spa for a swinging vacation, the third annual Life on the Swingset Takes Desire. With 160 people...

TKG 007: Kink IRL – From Doxing to Shaming to Job Loss – The Kinky Geeks

The Kinky Geeks discuss how kink IRL (“in real life” to the non-geeky) can often have painful consequences. Whether it’s being outed and doxed, being fired for personal details found online, slut shaming, or the Dr. McJudgersons we...

CC 010: Impostor Syndrome, the Fear of Being a Fraud – with Crista Anne

Have you ever felt like an impostor? Have you ever had the phrase “why would anyone ever listen to me?” go through your mind? You’re not alone. Katie and Ashley, along with special guest Crista Anne, explore the “impostor...

SS 182: The Worst Sex Toys in the World!!! with Crista Anne and the Redhead Beadhead

We’ve talked and talked about awesome sex toys are, the tremendous advancements in the field, the glory of stainless steel and silicone, body safe and body conscious products. You know all of that. So, today we’re gonna talk about the...

Packing for Desire 1.5

The Life on the Swingset trip to Desire Riveria Maya is still six months away, but we are packing our suitcase for a sexy adventure in desire right here in the US! It all started last spring when I learned that Cooper and the crew were sponsoring a...

Lexicon – A Swinging, Polyamory, and Non-Monogamy Vocabulary List

Cooper here for all your Lexicon needs. The first day Life on the Swingset was live I thought “We should have a lexicon.” Having one place where people could check for all the lingo would make things so much easier for our readers. Not to...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 2

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness! This article is part two of my experience hosting a Swinger Murder Mystery Party. You can read part one here. The Set-Up: This is a party that requires quite a bit of planning and preparation....

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 1

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness. But for us, anytime is the season for swinging and parties. We decided to get a head start on Halloween by hosting a swinger murder mystery party. This was a terrific event and would be great...

Girls Just Want to Have Fun! – Hosting Girls’ Nights

Girls’ Nights Out are a relaxed, low-key way for women in the swing lifestyle to get to know each other and have fun. I’ve been organizing girls’ nights for my meet and greet group for nearly 2 years. My group currently meets...

Fetish Fair Fleamarket 42 Trip Report – Part 2

If you missed part one, read it here. Something else Mrs. Duncan and I did at this Flea was to volunteer with the NELA folks. We had a free slot in the middle of the day Saturday and thought it would be a good idea to give back. We also had some...

The New Normal—Readjusting to Life After Desire Resort and Spa

A week ago, I was soaking up my last day at Desire, which always turns into a bit of a frenzy on the last day. We have things we want to do, but instead I quickly slip into my daily Desire mode on each trip. My daily Desire schedule usually consists...

We Begin With Talk Of Drink and Debauchery – Hazy Memories of Desire

New Disclaimer: This post was written in Mexico in 2011, by an entirely too tipsy Cooper Beckett. As we count down the days until Desire 2014 (which you can totally still come to!), he hopes you enjoy this memory of the last time he came. Ahem. Was...

Getting Through Airport Security With Sex Toys #coop500

My luggage gets one of those friendly homeland security notifications almost every time I fly. You know the ones that say: “Hey, we’re friendly, no big, but we had to open your stuff to check things out. This is just a friendly...

Lexicon – A Swinging, Polyamory, and Non-Monogamy Vocabulary List

Cooper here for all your Lexicon needs. The first day Life on the Swingset was live I thought “We should have a lexicon.” Having one place where people could check for all the lingo would make things so much easier for our readers. Not to...

SS 183: A Swinging Vacation – Live from Desire Resort & Spa – Life on the Swingset

Ginger, Professor, Miko, Ronin, Ophilia, and Cooper are out of the office this week. They’ve jet off to paradise in Mexico at Desire Resort and Spa for a swinging vacation, the third annual Life on the Swingset Takes Desire. With 160 people...

TKG 007: Kink IRL – From Doxing to Shaming to Job Loss – The Kinky Geeks

The Kinky Geeks discuss how kink IRL (“in real life” to the non-geeky) can often have painful consequences. Whether it’s being outed and doxed, being fired for personal details found online, slut shaming, or the Dr. McJudgersons we...

CC 010: Impostor Syndrome, the Fear of Being a Fraud – with Crista Anne

Have you ever felt like an impostor? Have you ever had the phrase “why would anyone ever listen to me?” go through your mind? You’re not alone. Katie and Ashley, along with special guest Crista Anne, explore the “impostor...

SS 182: The Worst Sex Toys in the World!!! with Crista Anne and the Redhead Beadhead

We’ve talked and talked about awesome sex toys are, the tremendous advancements in the field, the glory of stainless steel and silicone, body safe and body conscious products. You know all of that. So, today we’re gonna talk about the...

CC 009 : No Shave November: Pits and Bits Edition with Crista Anne

Ashley and Katie are joined by Crista Anne, foundress of Dildology and self professed body hair enthusiast. Together they explore why even in no shave November feminine body hair is stigmatized and how we can push back against societal norms. We...

Review: Cadet Vibrating Silicone Dildo

I was sent the vibrating Cadet from Good Vibes free of charge in exchange for an unbiased review. The Cadet comes in 3 flesh tone colors, which I like to call vanilla, caramel, and chocolate. I received vanilla so if I were to wear this in a harness...

SS 182: The Worst Sex Toys in the World!!! with Crista Anne and the Redhead Beadhead

We’ve talked and talked about awesome sex toys are, the tremendous advancements in the field, the glory of stainless steel and silicone, body safe and body conscious products. You know all of that. So, today we’re gonna talk about the...

Review: Bettie Page Spanking Bat

I have dreams about being bent over a chair, black bra and panties on that match my flowing black hair that’s draped over one shoulder and cascading to the floor. Silky soft backseam stockings are pulled up tight by a garter belt, and my hands...

Review: I Got A Robotic Blowjob from the Autoblow 2

A while back I reviewed the Realtouch, a masturbation machine, and was rather astonished to find it to be a pretty damned good product. Sure it was oversized, connected by large cables, heavy, and noisy, but it got me right to orgasm rather quickly...

Review: Pulse by Hot Octopuss

Do you think we, as producers, purveyors, purchasers, and patrons, could all just agree that it is unlikely that something will come along to “revolutionize” male masturbation in sex toy form? I’ve been doing this a while, and have...

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