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The Perils of Poly

At one of the meet and greet parties I started branching out into over the winter, I attended a party where I met this wonderful woman. There was more than just a click for me at any rate, she was smart, funny, self-aware, and not afraid to try new...

SS 155: Handjobs & Fingering – This Week We’re Strokin’ Penises & Vulvas

Handjobs and Fingering! Now that we have your attention, we want everyone to remember that there’s lots of pleasure to be hand through the wonders of the partnered manual stimulation of someone’s genitals with fingers! Now that...

It’s Naked Time! Nudity And The Male Body #coop500

There was a long topic suggestion on the #coop500 hashtag revolving around the various types of nudity levels expected at play parties. And I fully intend to get to that topic. But I also like the idea of just talking about nudity, and wrapping that...

Review: ORA by LELO – Little Nub, Big Talk

When I first saw the LELO ORA, I literally squealed. It was like the average teenage girl’s (or my average) reaction when seeing a kitten: “Ohmygod, lookithowcuuuute!” I immediately started playing with the buttons, testing the vibration...

The First Play Date Still Scares Me

So, in the beginning, my swinger origin story as it were, my ex wife and I would go on a date with a couple, things would go good (or not, but often they would because I’m a pretty good “vetter” of potential playmates via the...

Still More Swinger Meet and Greet Games

The more the merrier! Here is yet another set of games to get your group mingling and flirting. These are games we’ve used for our meet and greet. We meet once a month in a public club where there are a few other patrons. We have between 60...

The Life on the Swingset App Is Here!

“Is monogamy dead?” is a question being asked by almost every major news publication and magazine over the last two years. Awareness of alternatives to traditional monogamy is at an all time high, as more people are seeking resources to...

How to Explore Polyamory and Maintain a Connection With Your Partner

My husband and I have discussed swinging, but it didn’t really fit into what we were looking for. We were not looking for recreational sex partners, rather we were looking to explore ourselves through relationships with other people, not just...

Bacterial Vaginosis

This article is part of an ongoing series about STI’s as they relate to swinging. You can read related articles here. Bacterial vaginosis (BV) is not technically an STI, but it is related to sex and is commonly encountered in women who have...

Syphilis

This article is part of an ongoing series about STI’s as they relate to swinging. You can read related articles at http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/author/teamfun/ Syphilis is a bacteria that is transmitted sexually through skin to skin...

The Perils of Poly

At one of the meet and greet parties I started branching out into over the winter, I attended a party where I met this wonderful woman. There was more than just a click for me at any rate, she was smart, funny, self-aware, and not afraid to try new...

It’s Naked Time! Nudity And The Male Body #coop500

There was a long topic suggestion on the #coop500 hashtag revolving around the various types of nudity levels expected at play parties. And I fully intend to get to that topic. But I also like the idea of just talking about nudity, and wrapping that...

The First Play Date Still Scares Me

So, in the beginning, my swinger origin story as it were, my ex wife and I would go on a date with a couple, things would go good (or not, but often they would because I’m a pretty good “vetter” of potential playmates via the...

Taking One For The Team #coop500

It has been quite some time since I’ve taken one for the team. The short answer to “what does that mean” is playing with someone you’re not interested in because it will allow your partner to get laid. I suppose it could also...

Russian Dolls and Non-Monogamous Boyfriends

When your friends tell you you need a boyfriend, you might need (to stop weeping over your lack of) a boyfriend, or they might just be concerned about your promiscuity, or you might need to stop humping their legs. When two out of your three current...

SS 155: Handjobs & Fingering – This Week We’re Strokin’ Penises & Vulvas

Handjobs and Fingering! Now that we have your attention, we want everyone to remember that there’s lots of pleasure to be hand through the wonders of the partnered manual stimulation of someone’s genitals with fingers! Now that...

SS 154: Gang Bang The Mailbag 13 – Erection Issues, Swinging Cliques & Gossip, & Body Types at Swing Clubs

We tie up the mailbag today, after a double dose of answering your questions we’re shelving the mailbag (for a bit). We took and answered a question about erections, specifically that even after obtaining a prescription for viagra that a...

SS 153: Gang Bang The Mailbag 12 – Black Rings, Herpes, Pre-Judgement, and Swinging as a Single Male

Today we stick all our collective hands into our mailbag and pull your questions out! We’re back for our twelfth Mailbag Gang Bang! We tackle questions about the black ring right hand movement, about discovering people you work with on...

SS 152: DP, DVP, and DAP – The Double Penetration Spectacular

DP. DVP. DAP. Today, we discuss double penetration, double vaginal penetration, and double anal penetration, and not just the acts themselves. The act of any sort of double penetration requires thoughtfulness, planning, collaboration, communication,...

SS 151: Sex Work, Education, & Non-Monogamy with Guest Sabrina Morgan

Sabrina Morgan is a tireless advocate for sex workers’ rights and education on sex work. Having experience as a sex worker herself, as well as practicing ethical non-monogamy presents its own unique set of challenges when navigating relationships,...

HedoVibes Round Up #39

Photo courtesy of Gritty Woman Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to...

Review: ORA by LELO – Little Nub, Big Talk

When I first saw the LELO ORA, I literally squealed. It was like the average teenage girl’s (or my average) reaction when seeing a kitten: “Ohmygod, lookithowcuuuute!” I immediately started playing with the buttons, testing the vibration...

HedoVibes Roundup #33

Photo courtesy of Penny Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be...

Review: Super Soft C-Ring by Tantus

I should preface this review with a small but relevant tid-bit: I am a cisgender female. Meaning I was born with female genitalia, I deemed that was a correct assignment, and I currently identify as a female. So, that out of the way, I’m going...

The Crash Pad Series Queer Porn Review: Episode 152 – Chocolate Chip and Nikki Darling

The Crash Pad Series Episode 152 stars Chocolate Chip and Nikki Darling. The episode starts with them returning from a movie. The question is asked, what do they want to do now? Nikki starts to kiss Chocolate Chip. As their kissing continues, Chip...