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Hot Tub Against Humanity – A Swingset Craft Corner Project

If you like games, have access to a large hot tub, and if sexy naked folk, snorts of laughter and groans of disgust, innuendo and double entendre, and stolen kisses all sound like an awesome time to you, please read on. Prior to the latest Life on...

Packing for Desire 1.5

The Life on the Swingset trip to Desire Riveria Maya is still six months away, but we are packing our suitcase for a sexy adventure in desire right here in the US! It all started last spring when I learned that Cooper and the crew were sponsoring a...

Lexicon – A Swinging, Polyamory, and Non-Monogamy Vocabulary List

Cooper here for all your Lexicon needs. The first day Life on the Swingset was live I thought “We should have a lexicon.” Having one place where people could check for all the lingo would make things so much easier for our readers. Not to...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 2

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness! This article is part two of my experience hosting a Swinger Murder Mystery Party. You can read part one here. The Set-Up: This is a party that requires quite a bit of planning and preparation....

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 1

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness. But for us, anytime is the season for swinging and parties. We decided to get a head start on Halloween by hosting a swinger murder mystery party. This was a terrific event and would be great...

Asymmetrical Swinging

Humans (and not just humans) care a lot about equality and fairness. And for good reason: when not everyone is satisfied, and some get more at the expense of others, it can lead to discontent and “drama” that ruin things for everyone. When I was...

Ruminations on Swingset Takes Desire, 2014

A couple weeks ago, Shara and I returned from a week spent in paradise with a bunch of truly exceptional people. We joined the Life on the Swingset crew for Swingset Takes Desire, 2014, and it may have been the best decision we’ve made in...

Embracing Your Inner Enigma

“Damien, you are an enigma and I don’t understand you.” – A comment during a performance review, circa 1990. Labels are awesome. Really they are. We use them all the time to simplify our lives and keep us safe. Our ancestors used them...

The lifestyle: Welcome To Your New Life

Were you the nerdy, introverted guy in high school, whose dreams of hot sex with a horny girl were shut down by the harsh realities of your school’s rigid social structure? Were you the shy girl, pretty but made insecure by a barrage of unhealthy...

Hot Tub Against Humanity – A Swingset Craft Corner Project

If you like games, have access to a large hot tub, and if sexy naked folk, snorts of laughter and groans of disgust, innuendo and double entendre, and stolen kisses all sound like an awesome time to you, please read on. Prior to the latest Life on...

Hannibal S02E09 – Shiizakana – Eat The Rudecast

From the opening fantasy sequence where Will uses his ravenstag to kill Hannibal/Wendigo, through the expansion of the Margot Verger subplot, to the most raw KOW (killer of the week) in Randall Tier, the beast, the mechanical cave bear, we adore...

SS 187: Good Men Everywhere

As a lifestyle that is outside the mainstream, ethical non-monogamy tends to attract humans who are outside the mainstream. This certainly goes for the men…men who treat women as equals…men who are self-aware, respectful, and are...

CC014: Sex Culture Revolutionary Polly Superstar visits Carnalcopia

Have you ever wondered what happens at sex parties? How they work? Who organizes them? What the rules entail? Polly Superstar shares all of her sexy secrets of her creation, the world-renowned Kinky Salon. Katie and Ashley geek out with Polly about...

Hannibal S02E08 – Su-zakana – Eat The Rudecast

A treat of an episode filled with guest stars Katherine Isabelle, Jeremy Davies, and Chris Diamantopoulos. We spend the first ten minutes discussing the character of Margot Verger and the differences between the books, movies, and this series, and...

SS 186: Women, Sex, and Shame, with Elle Chase

When the topic of sexual shame comes up, nowhere is it greater than the institutionalized shame heaped upon the women of the world, asked to be both hypersexual and aesexual simultaneously. Tonight we’re re-joined by our friend Lady Cheeky,...

Review: Polly – Sex Culture Revolutionary

It’s no secret that before a fateful night in San Francisco in 2011, I wasn’t all that kinky. I’d dabbled, sure, but in general I never quite felt the urge or the need. I could see why other people did it as well. It took a night...

Review: Cadet Vibrating Silicone Dildo

I was sent the vibrating Cadet from Good Vibes free of charge in exchange for an unbiased review. The Cadet comes in 3 flesh tone colors, which I like to call vanilla, caramel, and chocolate. I received vanilla so if I were to wear this in a harness...

SS 182: The Worst Sex Toys in the World!!! with Crista Anne and the Redhead Beadhead

We’ve talked and talked about awesome sex toys are, the tremendous advancements in the field, the glory of stainless steel and silicone, body safe and body conscious products. You know all of that. So, today we’re gonna talk about the...

Review: Bettie Page Spanking Bat

I have dreams about being bent over a chair, black bra and panties on that match my flowing black hair that’s draped over one shoulder and cascading to the floor. Silky soft backseam stockings are pulled up tight by a garter belt, and my hands...

Review: I Got A Robotic Blowjob from the Autoblow 2

A while back I reviewed the Realtouch, a masturbation machine, and was rather astonished to find it to be a pretty damned good product. Sure it was oversized, connected by large cables, heavy, and noisy, but it got me right to orgasm rather quickly...

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