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Lexicon – A Swinging, Polyamory, and Non-Monogamy Vocabulary List

Cooper here for all your Lexicon needs. The first day Life on the Swingset was live I thought “We should have a lexicon.” Having one place where people could check for all the lingo would make things so much easier for our readers. Not to...

SS 180: Gang Bang The Mailbag 17 – Surprise Swinging, Silicone v. Silicone, Jealousy x 2

Gang Bang the Mailbag 17 – Almost Legal Asked and Answered Swingsetters! We discuss downgrading swing relationships, unexpected kissing jealousy, bi-threesome issues, partners backing out, theoretical jealousy, silicone lube on silicone toys...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 2

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness! This article is part two of my experience hosting a Swinger Murder Mystery Party. You can read part one here. The Set-Up: This is a party that requires quite a bit of planning and preparation....

CC 008: Weddings & Marriage – In Bed with Ashley and Katie

Katie and Ashley record their first “in bed” episode and dish about a wedding they attended together. Ashley explains why wedding receptions make her feel like hooking up and shares an embarrassing story. Podcast: Download (Durati

Come out, Come out, Wherever You Are

It is my favorite time of the year. The days are as long as they are going to get, and the early mornings are cool and beautiful for running. The evenings are long and stretch past my occasional bedtime. I ran this morning on a path covered by...

Lexicon – A Swinging, Polyamory, and Non-Monogamy Vocabulary List

Cooper here for all your Lexicon needs. The first day Life on the Swingset was live I thought “We should have a lexicon.” Having one place where people could check for all the lingo would make things so much easier for our readers. Not to...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 2

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness! This article is part two of my experience hosting a Swinger Murder Mystery Party. You can read part one here. The Set-Up: This is a party that requires quite a bit of planning and preparation....

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 1

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness. But for us, anytime is the season for swinging and parties. We decided to get a head start on Halloween by hosting a swinger murder mystery party. This was a terrific event and would be great...

Girls Just Want to Have Fun! – Hosting Girls’ Nights

Girls’ Nights Out are a relaxed, low-key way for women in the swing lifestyle to get to know each other and have fun. I’ve been organizing girls’ nights for my meet and greet group for nearly 2 years. My group currently meets...

Nerves & Dysfunction

Women have it easy. That’s right, I said it.  The prevailing notion is that a man can and will fuck anything presented to him, (and, to be fair, some men CAN and WILL) but in the lifestyle there are a few added stressors that can make that...

Lexicon – A Swinging, Polyamory, and Non-Monogamy Vocabulary List

Cooper here for all your Lexicon needs. The first day Life on the Swingset was live I thought “We should have a lexicon.” Having one place where people could check for all the lingo would make things so much easier for our readers. Not to...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 2

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness! This article is part two of my experience hosting a Swinger Murder Mystery Party. You can read part one here. The Set-Up: This is a party that requires quite a bit of planning and preparation....

Come out, Come out, Wherever You Are

It is my favorite time of the year. The days are as long as they are going to get, and the early mornings are cool and beautiful for running. The evenings are long and stretch past my occasional bedtime. I ran this morning on a path covered by...

Secrets, Scandal and Swinging! Hosting a Murder Mystery Party – Part 1

It’s the season for costumes and creepiness. But for us, anytime is the season for swinging and parties. We decided to get a head start on Halloween by hosting a swinger murder mystery party. This was a terrific event and would be great...

Poly Speed Dating for Fun and Profit

Ok, I had first heard of the term speed dating from my Swingset hosts’ description of activities at Desire. I suppose the term is somewhat self-explanatory, but for those of us who haven’t tried it, doesn’t it seems a little…weird? I have...

SS 180: Gang Bang The Mailbag 17 – Surprise Swinging, Silicone v. Silicone, Jealousy x 2

Gang Bang the Mailbag 17 – Almost Legal Asked and Answered Swingsetters! We discuss downgrading swing relationships, unexpected kissing jealousy, bi-threesome issues, partners backing out, theoretical jealousy, silicone lube on silicone toys...

CC 008: Weddings & Marriage – In Bed with Ashley and Katie

Katie and Ashley record their first “in bed” episode and dish about a wedding they attended together. Ashley explains why wedding receptions make her feel like hooking up and shares an embarrassing story. Podcast: Download (Durati

SS 179: Gang Bang the Mailbag 16 – Unprotected Sex, Lies, Coming Out As Poly and more!

Sweet Gang Bang Sixteen! We’ve taken your questions and answered them on air! We discuss a single poly woman dating a monogamous guy, being new and a virgin in non-monogamy, coming out as polyamorous to your family, talking to our children,...

SS 178: A Swinging Primer with Cooper Beckett – Live at The Pleasure Chest Los Angeles

Cooper super-sizes his Swinging Primer, as you do when you’re teaching in LA. Class description: “Cooper Beckett, from the podcast Life on the Swingset, takes you through the common peaks and valleys of beginning swinging, covering...

CC 007: Hands on Sex Education – A Threesome with Alex Morgan

Join Ashley, Katie, and special guest Alex S. Morgan as we unpack the ethical implications of hands on sex education, sexological bodywork, and in person sex coaching. We also geek out about our experiences at CatalystCon, the joys of fisting, and...

Review: Bettie Page Spanking Bat

I have dreams about being bent over a chair, black bra and panties on that match my flowing black hair that’s draped over one shoulder and cascading to the floor. Silky soft backseam stockings are pulled up tight by a garter belt, and my hands...

Review: I Got A Robotic Blowjob from the Autoblow 2

A while back I reviewed the Realtouch, a masturbation machine, and was rather astonished to find it to be a pretty damned good product. Sure it was oversized, connected by large cables, heavy, and noisy, but it got me right to orgasm rather quickly...

Review: Pulse by Hot Octopuss

Do you think we, as producers, purveyors, purchasers, and patrons, could all just agree that it is unlikely that something will come along to “revolutionize” male masturbation in sex toy form? I’ve been doing this a while, and have...

Review: Fucking Sculptures Corkscrew – Beautiful Piece of Art, Mediocre Sex Toy

I have many pieces in my toy collection that I feel could be considered objects of art. The nJoy toys definitely qualify, several of the glass toys, a few wooden dildos. All pleasure objects. Art pieces. The Corkscrew from Fucking Sculptures...

Review: Pop Top Deluxe G-Spot

I was sent the Pop Top Deluxe G-Spot attachment for the Hitachi Magic Wand* in exchange for an unbiased review from Good Vibrations. The toy is made by Pleasure Works and was one I specifically asked Good Vibrations for because I’ve been...