Author: Miko Technogeisha

Technogeisha is a sex positive kinkster with an insatiable curiosity. She and her husband spent lots of time hanging with the LA fetish crowd but never truly opened up. That all changed after finding Life on the Swingset. No longer content to be a virtual voyeur, she is actively pursuing the life non-monogamous. Having a passion for research (that apparently borders on fetish) has led her to mine the internet and devour books for information about all aspects of open relationships and sexuality. It’s wonderful to be invited to share that passion with all of you. Technogeisha not only writes but works behind the scenes on the Swingset.

It’s been one year since I first joined the Swingset crew as a writer. It turns out my official anniversary is in January if you count my very first correspondence with Cooper. Oddly enough the 1-year anniversary of his response to my Pleasure Quest email was the same day as the play party I attended so we unintentionally spent that anniversary together. It took me a while to get those first posts to him so my first article did not publish until today. So this is the one-year anniversary of my writing debut. A year since I tweeted I was…

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We here at The Swingset are always happy to help with any questions or concerns you have, please don’t hesitate to ask! Q.“I am a recently single female that was introduced to the lifestyle in my last relationship. I really enjoyed the lifestyle even though we didn’t get too far into it as a couple. Now that I’m single, I would like to start again. However, I keep running into a problem. I created a profile on a swing site and have received a lot of response (single bisexual female? you betcha!). Whenever I talk to a single man, I…

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We here at The Swingset are always happy to help with any questions or concerns you have, please don’t hesitate to ask! Q.”A little bit of history here, when we started I wrote you an email about my wife’s hesitancy to jump into the swinging waters. You gave me such a great advise and actually we both understood and agreed what you replied. Gave her the time and space and 2 years later, she is the one that drives the swinger car in our marriage. Now, here is my new situation. She is driving the car too fast… I cannot…

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In Episode 139 of The Crash Pad Series, Jolene Parton confronts her student Jacqueline Woods at the Crash Pad. Jolene is a fiery femme top and Jacqueline is a sexy flirtatious trans-lady. Apparently Jacqueline disgraced Jolene at the party they attended together and she is embarrassed by her behavior. Jacqueline offers a strap-on in what seems like an attempt to make things better and Jolene takes the offer. I could see this was going to be a very sexy episode with sexy strap-on play with some discipline mixed in. They kiss deeply and Jacqueline helps put the harness on Jolene.…

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When Cooper invited me to the play party he and Dylan were having, I knew I just had to go. Not only would it be an opportunity to see my dear friends, whom I hadn’t seen in nearly 7 months, it would be a chance to play with them and their awesome friends. Surprisingly, it would also be my first swinger play party. Indeed I would be going to progressive swinger mecca! I flew in the day before so I offered to help with set up before the party. What a great way to learn how a successful party is…

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The Crash Pad Series episode 138 finds Savannah Sly giving Audrey Doll a very strict performance evaluation. Savannah, the boss, is an alluring femme domme and Audrey, the secretary, is a sexy submissive transwoman. Savannah wants to get to know Audrey better outside of work. She tells her this while straddling her and holding her down. It’s also Audrey’s birthday. Savannah awards good work so she wanted to bring Audrey to the Crash Pad. Savannah starts her evaluation by discussing the dress code at the office. Audrey’s doing great but wants to make sure she’s dressed properly underneath. She undresses…

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Sex Geek: n. 1. Someone who takes pride in learning, applying and spreading throughout their lives accurate sexual health information, effective communication skills, and pragmatic relationship knowhow regardless of sexual identity and practices. During the process of opening up I found myself wanting to find more like-minded people. I really needed a community where I could speak freely, exchange ideas and gain support. In the sprawl that is Los Angeles I found that harder than expected.  I started out trying to find swinger groups that were just meet and greets or simple social events. The online sites said they were happening but…

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Slow and steady wins the race. This one sentence is quite possibly the best bit of advice in The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure. But that’s not all you will find in the book. Acclaimed sexuality educator Charlie Glickman joins forces with workshop instructor and sex coach Aislinn Emirzian to create a book that delves deep into the details of prostate pleasure. A wealth of information is combined with interviews conducted of hundreds of men and their partners to create an amazingly comprehensive guide. It is a mixture of clinical detail, helpful advice and friendly encouragement. As someone who still…

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In Episode 137 of The Crash Pad Series we have Jade Phillips and James Darling start off with a vintage style porn opening. James shows up with a “special delivery” for Jade. Upon opening the box Jade discovers James’ cock cleverly inserted into the box. Jade’s reaction to this is “These are clearly not the shoes I ordered.” which leads them to pull James inside the Crash Pad. Apparently they need to “discuss” the delivery mistake. They quickly undress each other. James wastes no time sucking on Jade using long strokes. James strokes with fingers while they kiss. James gets up…

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The Crash Pad Series Episode 136 stars Bianca Stone and Emma Claire. Bianca identifies as femme bear while Emma identifies as queer trans dyke. Both are tough and sexy. In this episode Bianca and Emma are in a pickup turf war. We begin with Bianca on the phone telling Emma she found out Emma is cruising her block. She tells her they need to settle it and knows Emma has a key to the Crash Pad. The argument continues in person at the door. They each tell the other they can’t have the territory. Emma tells Bianca she can’t tell her…

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