Author: Life on the Swingset

A podcast about swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and "the lifestyle" from the trenches. A diverse group tackles many issues involved with non-monogamy and what it means to be a swinger or polyamorous from the point of view of educating and illuminating what, for many, is a confusing journey to start on. Subscribe on iTunes Subscribe on Stitcher Subscribe via RSS

In this episode, Cooper asks for business and Dylan spills about a poly mismatch… and a breach of protocol. We discuss community around polyamory, forming communities around swinging, and moving into Pepper’s experience at various educational workshops and into what’s planned for OpenSF. Pepper Mint: @freaksexual, freaksexual.com Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!

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Pepper Mint rejoins the Swingset for discussion on hard kink. We open with a discussion about mommy porn and Fifty Shades of Grey and move into discussion about the BDSM and kink communities, plow through into contracts, talk about our actual kinks. Dylan asks about punching, Shira emotes about being punched in the butt, and Cooper cringes when needle play is mentioned, and we end by talking about how wonderful the human body is and how people process histories of abuse and sometimes use kinks to help. Pepper Mint: @freaksexual, freaksexual.com Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10,…

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We are joined by The Professor and Boris & Doris of the Boris & Doris Podcast to follow-up on a discussion prompted by Gay Rick from Sex Is Fun on his Facebook page. We discuss the uniqueness of the term “Vanilla” as it relates to open relationships, sex positivity, BDSM crowds, and whether it is, in general a positive or negative. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!

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Shira talks about sapiosexual foreplay. Cooper discusses building an untraditional family and continues his baby phobia. Ginger and the Professor have just returned from the Swingercast Desire Resort & Spa trip and tell us about their time in paradise. (Ginger spends the VAST majority of this episode giggling.) The Professor paints a beautiful word portrait of a nude Shira B. Katz striding along the beach with glistening wet labia. And Cooper insists that geese are bastards. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!

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Oral Sex. Cunnilingus. Rim Jobs. Today we discuss anything and everything oral on this episode of Life on the Swingset, The Podcast! We start with the basics, what we prefer, what we enjoy, and delve into different types of oral play. After a rousing instructional segment on how to suck Dylan’s cock, Shira B. Katz gives us both information and directions on better oral play with barriers. We also got a bit distracted thanks to Shira B. Katz. Here’s what was distracting us so much: Andy Warhol Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012! …

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In this show, we talk about one of our favorite subjects… ourselves! We’ve been steadily evolving and felt like keeping all of you up-to-date on where are we going, why we’re moving in that direction, all while throwing in a bit of misdirection with Metroid and Mega Man to keep you guessing. We address two listener questions / comments and all in all have a good time sharing our lives with each other. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!

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After a detour involving Prof Stephen Hawking’s time spent at a sex club, we discuss new swingers, polyamorists, and non-monogamists. Cooper and Dylan both profess their affection with newbies, while Shira and Ginger confess they make them nervous. After the break we talk about our own experiences being newbies, and get sidetracked again by a discussion of Classic Chicago Commercials. Cooper closes the show by reviewing Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Pegging. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012! Classic Chicago Commercial Links: Eagle Man Celozzi Ettleson Chevrolet

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Dylan launches a custom sexy talk service. We discuss the ethics and reasoning behind wanting or not wanting to date someone you’re mentoring. Cooper and Dylan both want to fuck all their friends. We discuss what chemistry means to us all, the surprise of a chemistry blind side, and the difficulty of getting four-way chemistry in swinging dating. Cooper reviews the Nexus Revo. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012! Rock climbing sex 

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We cold open with Cooper having a butt plug (hand crafted by Boris at BnDpodcast.com) inserted by Marilyn, then lead into a discussion of our kinks kicked off by a listener voicemail request. We round robin it for a while, discovering some of our surface kinks, resistance play, certain clothes, BDSM and pegging tops the list. Dylan spends much of the show insisting he doesn’t have any kinks before realizing time and again that he does. We also talk about being squicked out by some people’s kinks, and the difference between kink and fetish.

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