The Pick-up, we discuss vanilla pick-up culture briefly while moving into how to be picked up, how to message people online, and meeting people in real life. The concept of a codex, or a user manual (RTFM!) for potential hookups and dating partners to use comes up and we spend a lot of time figuring out what goes into it and what it actually means. While we lose a Ginger this episode, we pick up a Cunning Minx and have a great time! Show Notes: Minx’s User Manual Cunning Minx on Twitter Polyamory Weekly Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort…
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Life on the Swingset
A podcast about swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and "the lifestyle" from the trenches. A diverse group tackles many issues involved with non-monogamy and what it means to be a swinger or polyamorous from the point of view of educating and illuminating what, for many, is a confusing journey to start on. Subscribe on iTunes Subscribe on Stitcher Subscribe via RSS
We are joined by Ned & Maggie Mayhem, geeksexual porn stars whose mantra is to just be themselves in porn. We gush over them a while, Cooper admits their site is the first porn site he’s ever paid for. The discussion leads to making porn, bringing toys into the bedroom, male use of the Hitachi Magic Wand, male bisexuality in porn, and identifying as queer. Show Links: MeetTheMayhems.com Professor Mayhem Tutors James Darling CrashPadSeries.com Jiz Lee’s Karma Pervs MissMaggieMayhem.com Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!
We finish our debrief from our experience at Open SF Non-Monogamy Conference. We discuss seminars we attended, Dylan laments falling asleep, Cooper explains how The Brown Eyed Girl took them all out for a spin around town and how he learned to ask for what he wants, we break in the middle for a little discussion on companies who take public stances on issues, and we end with a farewell lunch on Monday with Pepper Mint. Donate to Open SF to help guarantee its return. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!
We continue our debrief from our experience at Open SF Non-Monogamy Conference. We discuss seminars we attended, including Charlie Glickman, Tristan Taormino, and the presentation we gave. Cooper gets a magic brownie and tries to pick up a Brown-Eyed Girl, and talks about how incredibly charming The Professor is. The gang goes on a San Francisco odyssey to find a hot-tub in the hills, and Dylan gets a girl. Donate to Open SF to help guarantee its return. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!
The gang begins their full debrief from the Open SF Non-Monogamy conference. Cooper experiences both Dom and sub play in a single night, and processes his feelings on Domination, humiliation, choking, as well as being flogged, spanked, and fondled. Dylan holds court and plays Cards Against Humanity with friends. Ginger and the Prof discover the fuck monster at the Pink Play Party. Shira brings a two boys to their first play party. Donate to Open SF to help guarantee its return. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!
The Swingset crew is drinking in bed together at the Open SF conference. For a good long while we giggle and talk of almost nothing. Dylan shamelessly flirts with the ladies. We move on to talking about Dom/sub play, and Cooper’s fears getting into it. The discussion leads to relationship safe words and the Get Out of Jail Free Card in dealing with relationship conflict. We talk aftercare and then dig into Cooper’s sex toy box while Dylan just wants to make out with Ginger’s thigh. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!
The Swingsetters are live in San Francisco at the Open SF Conference on non-monogamy to discuss Progressive Swinging, where swingers are gradually sliding down the spectrum toward long term relationships, and even !!GHASP!! love. We take questions from the audience and Cooper gets all riled up. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!
We return to the mailbag, still full after last week to discuss a number of jealousy related issues. A newly poly girl is uncomfortable with her husband dating his monogamous ex girlfriend, what is the difference between different flavors of non-monogamy, is jealousy healthy, does it show your partner that you care? Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!
To celebrate our 75th episode we go back to gang-banging the mailbag for another listener question episode. We get excited that Shira’s transient boy is staying in America and Cooper is narrating Tristan Taormino’s radio show. Our ire is raised that the Catholic church is suing about birth control. Then our listeners ask us to talk about spanking, kinks to watch, revisiting oral sex to talk about cum, the girls talk about how much they enjoy watching men ejaculate, how to bounce back from a bad swinging experience, to drink or not to drink at clubs, one-sided chemistry and interest,…
Tristan Taormino returns to the Swingset to give Cooper some advice on NRE, discuss her new book The Ultimate Guide to Kink, and talk about her new project, a weekly live call-in radio show called Sex Out Loud on VoiceAmerica.com starting June 1st. Tristan Taormino: @tristantaormino PuckerUp.com Tristan Taormino’s Radio Show: SexOutLoudRadio.com @sexoutloudradio Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!