Author: Life on the Swingset

A podcast about swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and "the lifestyle" from the trenches. A diverse group tackles many issues involved with non-monogamy and what it means to be a swinger or polyamorous from the point of view of educating and illuminating what, for many, is a confusing journey to start on. Subscribe on iTunes Subscribe on Stitcher Subscribe via RSS

This… is episode 100. We thank our guests, our previous co-hosts, we yell at each other, unbridled chaos abounds everywhere. It’s a full 90 minutes of the four of us enjoying each other. Pure joy, true love… To another 100 episodes we go! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount!

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Not all of you have been listening weekly for three years (probably… maybe) so by extension, not all of you know how we got here and what we lived through before we discovered these lifestyles we lead. So I’m Dylan, and I’m telling you my story, now. It’s long, I spend the first ten minutes talking about pubescent erections but it all leads somewhere, and if you’re interested… I’ll take you on my little journey through the dark ages of my own sexuality and into my non-monogamy. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount!

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After a slight delay, the Swingset crew talk Life on the Swingset’s first trip to Desire Resort & Spa in Cancun and squick Shira B. Katz right the hell out. We lament the shortness of our jaunt to paradise, and talk about what we hope to do next time. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount!

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Hi everybody, it’s the Life on the Swingset annual Toytacular event! We’re in year three of recommending the best and most interesting toys we’ve played with, and laughing about the worst and worst designed toys we’ve suffered with. We bring Claire from the Smitten Kitten Online into the conversation and riff on… oh, something like 40 or more toys. Hop on and bring a pad of paper! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount!

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Parenting when you’re a swinger or a polyamorist isn’t easy is most definitely not a topic that’s well documented. Luckily Airial Clark has been picking up the slack! She joins us for a conversation on how to be  a parent and straddle the line between too soon and not soon enough. We discuss the advantages and hurdles children may encounter when coming up against an aggressively monogamist society, and all in all, how to stay sex positive. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online’s Intimate Organics Aromatherapy Massage Oils. They’re Dylan Thomas endorsed! (Don’t forget the discount code, “swingset” for a 10%…

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Cooper, Ginger, and Dylan brought Marilyn, The Professor, Tonia, and 35 couples with them to Desire in Cancun, Mexico! 18 months of foreplay result in good feelings, a little crying, lots of sexy time, and a terribly unstructured but incredibly fun to record podcasting session where we discuss introductions, making moves, saying no, and just being part of the flow. This… is Life on the Swingset, recorded on-location, in paradise. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online store! (Don’t forget the discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount!)

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After an intense experience in the hot tub at Desire Resort & Spa with Life on the Swingset, Marilyn and The Professor sit down to talk about the role of energy play and Reiki, a trip to A Touch of Magic Massage by Claudia, and what a skeptic Cooper is in this special recorded in Desire!

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When the Swingers are away the Katz will play! Shira B. Katz has taken over the Swingset, and has enlisted her husband of mythical proportions Gavin Katz.  The hosts of Pedestrian Polyamory (cheap plug) aren’t necessarily talking about Polyamory this week, but their ventures into a Swinger party.  Comparisons are made between the two cultures, Shira wants to ride the Swing Train, and Gavin wants to hit her with one. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online store! (Don’t forget the discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount!)

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We’re up for a second round of double penetration! That’d be double, double penetration…. Hmm… Anyway, We’re back with questions about what to do about party invitations when you have a couple that breaks up, bringing up the cultivation of poly relationships with swinger friends, long distance relationships, partners leaving the lifestyle and potentially their relationships, being and dealing with self-consciousness about cock performance and size, the “genderless”, the difference between healthy and unhealthy swinger relationships, and… Equality in freedom to explore. We covered quite a bit of ground on this episode. Take a listen, strap on those thigh dildos,…

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