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Being a Sexual Special Guest Star – Part 3: Meeting Couples!
Mar13

Being a Sexual Special Guest Star – Part 3: Meeting Couples!

It’s time to meet couples in real life! Whether you’ve decided to meet a couple one on one or venture out to a swing event, here are some guidelines to help you along. Safety As a single it’s important to consider your safety foremost. While most people we’ve met in the lifestyle are genuine and caring; we have met individuals who are dangerous. You don’t need to be paranoid, but please take a few easy...

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Being a Sexual Special Guest Star – Part 2: Finding Couples
Mar05

Being a Sexual Special Guest Star – Part 2: Finding Couples

You’ve made the choice to check out the swinging lifestyle as a single! It may seem exciting, but mysterious and daunting at the same time. Here are basic steps to get started meeting couples online and in person. Online websites for swingers serve two important purposes. First, they allow you to introduce yourself to your local swing community. Secondly, they will provide you information about clubs and events in your area and...

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House Party Rules
Jan24

House Party Rules

I joined a local poly/swing group and have recently attended a number of events they have sponsored. Fellatio 301 – Advanced Techniques This class was taught/facilitated by a local sexologist/sex positive educator. It was held in the home of one of the members. I had a little trouble finding her house and was about 15 minutes late. Which meant that I walked into a room of 11 other women (plus the instructor) who all knew each...

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You Did What? – A Unicorn Begins at a Swingers Club
Jun08

You Did What? – A Unicorn Begins at a Swingers Club

I’m still new to the Lifestyle, but I quickly learned that swingers aren’t easily shocked. They usually want to hear about your sexual preferences within the first five minutes after being introduced. But tell them you’re a single woman who first entered the Lifestyle by heading solo to a swingers club and most are taken aback. It’s a reaction that still surprises me because I’ve never met a community of people more pleasant and...

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