In Ep 20, we talk about how, even in open relationships, even as sex positive people, we often hide our true interests, feelings, ideas from playmates and our partner. We discuss why this might be as well as talk about moving beyond it. We also talk about fetishes and role playing. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kidder Kaper Show notes: Check out our review of cum-like Liquid Silk lube!
In Ep 19, we talk about anal sex and its place in non-monogamy, how it’s often tokenized for significant other play only, the wonders and joys of double penetration, pegging, and male bisexuality. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kendra Holliday (Formerly TBK) Show notes: Buy the Nexus Maximus, our favorite dual dildo! Pick up a copy of Tristan Taormino’s wonderful Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women (2nd Edition) Check out Kendra Holliday’s website The Beautiful Kind
In Ep 18, we invite two new friends onto the swingset for our discussion of the blurred line between polyamory and swinging. In this discussion we attempt to define the two terms and then break down our own definitions, we expand further with how we relate to friends and lovers. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & TBK Show notes: TBK’s articles about the sexy bar threesome and her jealous freakout. The best book on swinging, polyamory and open relationships: Opening Up: Tristan Taormino Check out TBK’s website The Beautiful Kind
In Ep 17, we bring it around with an all guys show for the final installment of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. For this episode, the guys, led by Cooper, answer questions put to them by the girls. Up for discussion in this episode: Flirting, sexy clothes, imperfections, lifestyle advice, partner’s enjoyment, pursuit & capture, anal play and more. On this show The Guys: Cooper, Dylan, Professor, Rob, & Barefeatz Check out Barefeatz podcast Lifestyle Life
In Ep 16, we switch things up with an all girls show for the back half of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. For this episode, the girls, led by Ginger, answer questions put to them by the guys. Up for discussion in this episode: “Why doesn’t size matter?” “What do you notice first about men? About women?” “How should we approach you at swing events without being creepy guys?” “How is it different seducing a woman as opposed to a man?” “Guys love watching bi [...]
In Ep 15, we continue our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. In the first two parts, the girls and guys answer the same questions and we jump back and forth between them. Up for discussion in this episode: “What are your favorite/least favorite lifestyle moments?” “Can you talk about a time you were jealous?” “What’s a no-play deal breaker?” “What’s the hottest thing you’ve seen your partner do with someone else?” On this show The Girls: Ginger, Sasha, Marilyn, Kylie, & Tonia The Guys: Cooper, [...]
In Ep 14, we begin our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. In the first two parts, the girls and guys answer the same questions and we jump back and forth between them. Up for discussion in this episode: “When did you first know you were non-monogamous?” “Do you think you could go back to monogamy?” “What’s on your to-do list?” “Full swap/Soft swap? Same room/different rooms?” On this show The Girls: Ginger, Sasha, Marilyn, Kylie, & Tonia The Guys: Cooper, Dylan, Professor, Rob, & [...]
In Ep 13, we discuss number dynamics in swing environments, from threesomes, to foursomes, to orgies. Sasha extols the virtues of odd numbers and the big pile, and Dylan discusses the house he wants to buy in a swinger friendly neighborhood, his greed knows no bounds, wanting a 10 seater hot tub. On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, Ginger, & Kylie
In Ep 12 we talk about pressure, and how pressuring encounters can be as swingers. The first half of our show focuses primarily on male pressure to perform and erectile dysfunction, in the back half we talk about pressure to move beyond your comfort zone, pressure to not use protection and many other things, and we’re VERY happy that Sasha has returned to us! On this show: Cooper, Sasha, Dylan, & Ginger
In Ep 11, we discuss the ins and outs of bediquette when it comes to bringing other sexy folk into your bedroom for playtime. We also introduce the newest member of the Swingset family, Ginger!
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