Archive for category: Podcast

The Swingset crew discuss their first sex toys and experiences and talk about their favorite sex toys of the year in our Holiday Buying Guide podcast.

In Life on the Swingset, The Podcast: Ep 23, we spend a long evening with our friend Kendra Holliday, who on National Coming Out day, revealed her identity to the world on her website The Beautiful Kind. Over the course of an hour and a half, we talk with Kendra about the time since she came out to the world, the difficulties she’s had with her community and her ex husband, and how it feels to be a source of sex positive information in a difficult world. We then move beyond to our own feelings about coming out as swingers, polyamorous, non-monogamous, or even simply sex positive.

In Ep 22, we wrap up our big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We discuss the journey of the bisexual male, the evolution of acceptance (and hotness) of the bisexual female, the stereotypes and biases against both and the growing need for non-monogamy to be its own subclass. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kidder Kaper  

In Life on the Swingset, The Podcast, Ep 21, we begin the big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We discuss the journey of the bisexual male, the evolution of acceptance (and hotness) of the bisexual female, the stereotypes and biases against both and the growing need for non-monogamy to be its own subclass.

In Ep 20, we talk about how, even in open relationships, even as sex positive people, we often hide our true interests, feelings, ideas from playmates and our partner. We discuss why this might be as well as talk about moving beyond it. We also talk about fetishes and role playing. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kidder Kaper Show notes: Check out our review of cum-like Liquid Silk lube!  

In Ep 19, we talk about anal sex and its place in non-monogamy, how it’s often tokenized for significant other play only, the wonders and joys of double penetration, pegging, and male bisexuality. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & Kendra Holliday (Formerly TBK) Show notes: Buy the Nexus Maximus, our favorite dual dildo! Pick up a copy of Tristan Taormino’s wonderful Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women (2nd Edition) Check out Kendra Holliday’s website The Beautiful Kind

In Ep 18, we invite two new friends onto the swingset for our discussion of the blurred line between polyamory and swinging. In this discussion we attempt to define the two terms and then break down our own definitions, we expand further with how we relate to friends and lovers. On this show: Cooper, Ginger, Dylan, Shira B.Katz, & TBK Show notes: TBK’s articles about the sexy bar threesome and her jealous freakout. The best book on swinging, polyamory and open relationships: Opening Up: Tristan Taormino Check out TBK’s website The Beautiful Kind

In Ep 17, we bring it around with an all guys show for the final installment of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. For this episode, the guys, led by Cooper, answer questions put to them by the girls.  Up for discussion in this episode: Flirting, sexy clothes, imperfections, lifestyle advice, partner’s enjoyment, pursuit & capture, anal play and more. On this show The Guys: Cooper, Dylan, Professor, Rob, & Barefeatz Check out Barefeatz podcast Lifestyle Life

In Ep 16, we switch things up with an all girls show for the back half of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. For this episode, the girls, led by Ginger, answer questions put to them by the guys.  Up for discussion in this episode: “Why doesn’t size matter?” “What do you notice first about men? About women?” “How should we approach you at swing events without being creepy guys?” “How is it different seducing a woman as opposed to a man?” “Guys love watching bi [...]

In Ep 15, we continue our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. In the first two parts, the girls and guys answer the same questions and we jump back and forth between them. Up for discussion in this episode: “What are your favorite/least favorite lifestyle moments?” “Can you talk about a time you were jealous?” “What’s a no-play deal breaker?” “What’s the hottest thing you’ve seen your partner do with someone else?” On this show The Girls: Ginger, Sasha, Marilyn, Kylie, & Tonia The Guys: Cooper, [...]