Archive for category: Ginger & The Professor

As we have moved through this vanilla phase, I’ve realized just how busy an ethical non-monogamist’s life actually is. Even though we haven’t had the time to actively date, we are still building and maintaining relationships that mean something to us. Some are long-time friends we miss. Some are new budding relationships that have fantastic promise. And some are just fun messages from brand new hotties we haven’t met yet, but would love to find the time to meet.

It seems as though I have been inundated with exposure to all things female orgasm lately: personal conversations, news articles, books, research, podcasts. . . I have gleaned a number of titillating and novel insights from these various sources, but f…

Oh so HOT here in Miami! With so many sexy vibes, I’m diving in with my first blog post. The Prof does such a fantastic job sharing our thoughts and perspective, it has taken a catalyst like Swingfest to get me fired up to write. One fact is crystal cl…

Prof and I have a new fun bedtime pastime: browsing porn together. YouPorn makes it so easy to have a broad spectrum of categories and ways to search. We climb into bed with our iPad and let the fun begin! Although I’ve found that what is fun about this pastime is less the porn watching and more the browsing.

The specialty electronics retailer, Brookstone, has begun carrying the oh so elegant and admired Lelo products. Yes, you read that right, Lelo, as in (shhhhh….don’t say it too loud) VIBRATORS! Oh, I’m sorry, I mean personal and intimate massagers.

In writing our latest blog post, Ginger and the Professor – Revealed, we disclosed that one of the central discoveries in our path to the Swingset was the realization that we would never be able to satisfy all the sexual needs of each other. Our sex life has long been erotic, athletic, and multi-orgasmic. Ginger, like the Kelly Preston character in Jerry Maguire, often exclaims “Don’t ever stop fucking me!” [...]

Ginger talks about the closeness of a swinger community, and how our lifestyle brings us close together.

Ginger and the Professor go on a blind date with a new couple whose pictures they haven’t seen

We feel compelled to post a blog in the wake of the most recent Swingset episode in which Cooper and Marilyn joined the Sex is Fun crew for their trip to Desire. We’re so happy everybody had a fantastic time. That is what Desire is all about! In the lead up to the trip, friends who are all part of this diverse community that is open relationships had an open [...]

Happy Lady Porn Day, Swingsetters! You’ll notice a theme in the cyberverse today…Lady Porn, specifically porn created by, uniquely for or with women in mind. Lady Porn is not your dad’s Hustlers. While Lady Porn in some ways should be whatever it is that turns women on, I think it is consciousness-raising and activism that female-oriented porn even exists will give more women the permission to engage. My guess is [...]