Archive for category: Cooper’s Blog

I project well. By that I mean that I that I can appear to be something I’m not, to the vast majority of people who know the name Cooper Beckett, in fact. And what aren’t I? Confident.

Non-monogamy and swinging has allowed Marilyn and I to be exposed to a wide variety of sexual interaction that, had we continued upon our plain ole monogamous ways, we might never have seen. Among these things are the vast spectrum that is BDSM, anal play, bisexuality and other wonders of the sexual experience.

So, I made the mistake of announcing on Facebook that we’d booked our flights to Cancun for next February.  (Join Marilyn and I in Desire with the Sex is Fun Group!) And, so quickly that I’m shocked I didn’t realize that this might happen, I got several “where are you staying?”s from friends, family, my father.  Hmmm.  My parents are big believers in vacation, and have been to pretty much [...]

“What’s on your list?” Sasha asked me. “I’m…um…my list?” “Your todo list, you know, lifestyle todos.” “Oh! I hadn’t really thought about it.” “Well, you should. Tell some nice people your list and they’re gonna want to help you check things off…” She winked. So, I thought, why don’t we, as a swingset, compile a “Master Swingset Todo List?”  I’ll get things started with some of mine and friends, and [...]

I was doing my daily reading over at Eden Cafe and I found an article that immediately caught my attention because I too felt the pain and terror of the “Is it Herpes” bumps! I had a nightmare scare recently myself. I’d been shaving my pubic region regularly for a while, and always got some ingrown hairs and bumps, but these weren’t going away. So I called my friend in [...]

I’ve received a few emails now since starting my Fleshlight experiment about how to clean up after a session with the Fleshlight and it’s really a lot easier than one might think. Simply remove the Fleshlight from its container, spread it open and run hot water directly through it for a while. Once done running down, flip it over and run water through the other way. Then let it dry [...]

I’ve been thinking a lot recently about why we do this.  The swinging thing.  I mean, the main reasons are obvious…’cuz we’re not so much into the whole monogamy thing.  But the secondary reasons are pretty interesting as well.  Friends.  Connections.  Social group expansion. Our circle of friends is very different than it was just a year and a half ago. But for me, one of the best parts of [...]

So, there was a lot of clamoring via Facebook and Twitter when Ginger and the Professor decided to come and visit Marilyn and I, for a tell all expose of our debauchery. Many wanted a podcast recording of it. (But that would’ve been 5 hours long, BOOM!) Or at least for Ginger and I to deconstruct the proceedings in some way. What I will tell you is that Ginger and [...]

House recently featured a patient with an open marriage.  As they’ve done before with the porn star couple, the team quickly divided into for and against.  But before this, as the opening titles ran, with the amazing Teardrop by Massive Attack, Marilyn and I discussed who we thought would be for and against this relationship.   Of course bisexual and kinky 13/Remy would be for it, Chase would probably have [...]

Cooper discusses his efforts to overcome expectations of sex at swinger parties as well as deal with issues relating to delayed ejaculation and leave all the stress and pressure that accompany both behind.