The short version is that Ark broke a rule. It was an important rule that was there for everyone’s safety and my sanity, but in the heat of the moment, he broke the rule. I felt betrayed, broken—and I was pissed off. I took the time to cool off and think about it and rationalize it, and I’ve done the best I could about it. I
NRE and crushing. Relationships. Time. I’ve been thinking of those four words a lot, lately. Every poly is different. Right now, my poly includes me, my husband and my girlfriend in a V formation, with me at the point.
People ask us all the time why we got married, if we’re not going to be exclusive. This is probably the question we get asked most often. For both of us, the answer is that we know we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other, regardless of who (or what) else comes up in the interim.
Sometimes my husband makes me feel guilty about spending time with Kitten. He doesn’t do it on purpose, and he has gotten much better about it (mostly because we’ve talked about it over and over), but he gets jealous and cops an attitude. My first reaction is to feel sad and hurt and (yes) guilty. But as time goes on, if I let it fester, I get angry. I don’t [...]
How often do you walk around at work, or at the mall, or anywhere, and wonder if the people around you feel as lucky as you do? Is the person in the car next to you at the stoplight a swinger? Is the teller at the bank a polyamorist? How lucky are we, the few, the different, who have opened up our minds, our hearts and our bodies to let [...]
Blue spins an erotic tale of playtime with Kitten and a dildo.
Blue comes up against the cold hard reality that some friends simply will not be able to deal with the fact that she’s in a polyamorous relationship.
Blue takes us back to her first orgasm, how masturbation and orgasms have changed for her over the years, and orgasming with someone else.
Photo provided by Marco Gomes Hey sexy people, Cooper here. Blue came to me with a proposal, to document her journey into Polyamory. I told her to climb on up and take a swing. “I am definitely in love with her.” Not that strange a sentence. Millions, billions of people probably think or say the same thing every day, in their own language or in their own way. Maybe it’s [...]
Blue tackles growing pains of an ever evolving and shifting relationship landscape in her triad with Kitten and Ark
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