Author: Life on the Swingset

We brought Miko Technogeisha on for a discussion on our own personal kinks, and… ended up derailed when Dylan inevitably decided to use Ginger’s bedroom habits for his own personal scene. Upon attempting to get back on track Cooper sets up a second scene involving some fictional magical characters at a fictional wizardry school and…  Ginger steps out for a few! After the break we go into what it can feel like for a “less kinky” person to encounter a “very kinky” person and all around just chat about how much fun it can be, to be kinky. Check out…

My name is Cooper Beckett, and I am a loudmouth. I’m extremely opinionated, and I use my little podcast as a soap box for my opinions. I’m also a snarky bastard, who enjoys giving shit to all. Just ask Dylan. This weekend, I got two emails, both taking me to task for my grumpery. I have snarked about “breeders” because I have no interest in having children. I have never seen this term as an insult, and have no issue whatsoever with children, or those who bear them. I like kids, I like people with kids. As a definite minority…

We’re taking another dip into the calm waters of the lake of reader submitted questions for our seventh Gang-Bang the MailBag episode! After what seems like thirty minutes of business and random thought salad, we discuss being a discerning connoisseur of swing partners, trying to find time to really meet minds with a group of progressive swingers while having limited amounts of time, discussing the old #1 rule that women make the rules, and politics and self-selection in finding playmates. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount! Check out the Stand-To-Urimate “Spoon” Packer STP!

Many of us in the lifestyle are parents and can sometimes feel alone when addressing issues regarding child development and age-appropriate ways of discussing sexuality. Airial Clark wowed us so much the last time she was on, we asked her to come back! Today, Dylan stumbles over trying to figure out how not to repeat the “find your father’s pornos” way of discovering sexuality, Shira appreciates the depth of knowledge Airial has on non-monogamous households and the benefits and extra issues that come with it, while Cooper just cracks a few jokes and laughs about breeders. Check out the Smitten Kitten…

Cooper and Dylan throw some great swinger parties, but not always by design. Much like their journey into non-monogamy, a combination of moxie, trial and error, and luck has combined to create some wonderful stories. Reid Mihalko on the other hand has spent time and effort learning how carefully crafting group dynamics create the best chance of worthwhile parties for everyone, and not necessarily just with swingers. He joins us tonight for a discussion on sexy parties! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount! Check out the G-Spotter Pop Top Deluxe Silicone Hitachi Attachment!…

We’re talking all about the rear, anal sex, from preparation to insertion to orgasm and beyond! Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian, authors of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure join us to chat about anal sex, and what it means for men to be on the receiving end of penetrative sex. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount! Check out the Fuze Halo Buttplug! Check out The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, by Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you’re coming! Use Discount Code: swingset…

After Shira tells us a bizarre story of having her upper lip devoured by a creeper at a club, Cooper talks about falling in love. This leads to a discussion on his developing confidence, and then to the broader topic of how to be confident, how to build it, and how to wield it. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount! Check out the Silicone Bit Gag by Spartacus Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you’re coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!

“Hey Cooper… tell us how you really feel!” “Well alright then.” We’ve discussed organized religion and how it’s affected our own relationship with sexuality, how it influences our community as a whole and… at times, indelicately pointed out where we take issue with its monopoly on morality and its right to judge what’s acceptable and what’s not. We finally said fuck it, threw up our arms, and invited Darrel Ray, author of the books The God Virus: How Religion Affects Our Lives and Culture, and Sex and God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality to join us for a discussion on how…

Dee Dennis decided to join us for a discussion on building sex positive communities (and the perils within doing so), and how to translate that into a great conference experience! It’s apropos as she’s also the founder of CatalystCon so… we chat about that just a little bit. 🙂 Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount! Check out the Aneros Helix Prostate Massager! Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you’re coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!

For Episode 101 we thought giving a brief “101” lecture on Progressive Swinging felt right. So, we reintroduce and define what we mean by Progressive Swinging, and give you the very basics; what you need, what to expect, and how to proceed. We’ve approached the basics before, communication, introductions, prep work, but this time with give it to you with a different goal in mind, how to enter into Progressive Swinging. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount! Check out the String Along Thong! Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and…