MA 074: Sex Positivity, Sex Negativity, Sex Neutrality – Multiamory


This week we are trying to pin down the slippery notion of sex positivity. Does it just mean the absence of sex negativity? Does it mean you have to be enthusiastic about all kinds of sex? What if you don’t even have sex? We bandy about what “sex neutrality” might mean, as well as illuminate the ways that sex positive communities actually leverage sex negativity in order to escape stigma and seek more acceptance.

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Multiamory is the place for you to find new ideas and out-of-the-box thinking about relationships. Our insights come from lots of research and years of personal experience with polyamory, but the information found here is useful for people in any type of relationship. Whether you are poly, considering diving into it, or just looking to have better monogamous relationships, our tips and ideas will help you to have the healthiest, happiest, and sexiest life possible.

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