Pedestrian Polyamory 40: Metamorals
by Gavin
Gavin has taken over with Postulant Polyamory! Gavin and Shira are here to talk about how to interact with your metamour, and how to establish the proper boundaries and relationship with your lover’s lover. Gavin is also in a bit of a dry spell, so he’s a bit grumpy. Shira invites The Transient to come and join the conversation, so that makes Gavin a bit grumpy as well. Listen to the dynamic residing in the Katz household and learn how to treat your metamour… or rather… how NOT to treat your metamour.
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at 11:58 am
Ummm that was painful to listen to. I’m sorry you guys are having such a rough time – I hope you pull through. And if not, I hope there’s an end to your pain soon. And no, I’m not talking about Gavin’s balls.
at 3:52 am
I’m really starting to feel guilty about how much I’m enjoying the Podcast…
Friction is stranger than truth it appears.
Love you all in equal measure.
Just kidding-I LOVE GAVIN THE MOST!X
Who would have guessed self inflicted wounds could be so funny?
xxxxx
at 10:43 pm
I did not enjoy this episode at all. I usually have to grit my teeth to get thru all the twee cuteness and lack of focus to try to glean a nugget of something useful about polyamory……
Instead I had to listen to Gavin act all surly and passive-aggressive and whiny.
This episode was abusive and disrespectful of Shira and the transient.
It was an hour of my life that I will never get back.
If this is the best you can offer your audience, just don’t do it. Take a week off, go sulk in the corner, get a massage, something….
Gavin, if you are so freakin unhappy about the situation, do something about it.
at 6:48 pm
This was a very difficult episode to listen to… but, oddly, a lot of my metamour contact has gone like this, especially when relationships are ending. Not all of it! I have had a few metamours that I got along great with, and have one now who is great. But when someone is seeing their relationship implode, it’s easy to lash out and blame someone else. And it really sucks to feel hated or misunderstood.
(btw, I’m on team Gavin.)